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43 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:07pm
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Let's see, here goes: Been in NYC going on three years after living for a few years abroad. I'm a fun-loving, sometimes sarcastic, serious, or goofy, but always good intentioned guy who likes exploring cities, traveling, reading, drawing, music, film, dining out, architecture, design, concerts, seeking out hidden treasures and sharing a good laugh.

Looking to meet a guy that shares my interests, makes me laugh, has an honest idea of what they want (in life and a relationship), and is ultimately/eventually emotionally available.
What I’m doing with my life
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Designing and project managing a hotel design + build. Learning, growing, enjoying- taking things in stride.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding lost objects, giving friends advice, learning my way around foreign cities quickly
The first things people usually notice about me
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I get asked for directions quite often. Friends say I look like the kind of guy that would "know."
...whatever that means..
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: David Sedaris' collections, Just Kids, Middlesex, Devil in the White City, Let the Great World Spin, Russian Disco
Movies: Who's Afraid of Virginia Woolf? Best in Show, Waiting for Guffman, anything by Stanley Kubrick, Eternal Sunshine, Airplane! Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Dogma 95 films (and Danish films in general) Michael Haneke, Almodovar, David Lynch, Strangers with Candy series
Music: Too much to list
Food: Practically everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, friends, travel, computer, good walking shoes, passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"we could not talk or talk forever...and still find things to not talk about"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out with friends for dinner and drinks, or staying in and cooking and avoiding the masses
You should message me if
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you feel so inclined to...