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bkcubcake

36 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 25–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:24am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Middle Eastern, White, Other
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
brooklyn boy to the core. made from coffee egg creams, manhattan special soda and sicilian slices.

queer (not bisexual). ftm. mixed-race, white passing--i'm aware of the complications and privilege associated with that identity.

genuine, easy-going, cat lover, loyal. overscheduled man of leisure.

i'm not afraid, apologetic or ashamed of who i am and how i live my life. nothing surprises me! i have no time for haters, judgements or mediocrity. i believe that anything that is worth doing is worth over doing.

open to dating, snuggling, and for some dirty (but very safe) times.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
making humans look fabulous. throwing queer mixers and dance parties (see below)
cookin' up storms, dancin' till the wee hours of the morning. connecting people and playing yenta. following the four agreements and becoming the master of love.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making something out of nothing at all (mostly in a cooking kind of way), makin' out. walking fast and talking faster.
i excel in the open, honest and timely communication department.
Bonuses, I can: give a mean head massage, run gaily forward, make you feel incredible with my small but mighty hands...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sparkling smile. Big......beard.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: anything by murakami (especially kafka on the shore), andrew vachhs' burke novels, don miguel ruiz, pema chodron, owl at home, sub rosa

music: i'll listen to almost anything (with some exceptions) that i can either dance to or sing to (even if i'm off key)

movies: goodfellas, scarface, ice pirates, anything with bette midler and dolly parton, mad max beyond thunderdome, the last unicorn, solarbabies, the apartment, hackers, foxfire (1996), old musicals (50s/60s), anything by tim burton, john waters and tarantino, the outsiders, the warriors, the way we were, the harvey girls

food: greens, bacon, uni..seriously though, i love food and i can talk about it all the time and eat it while i talk about it. there isn't anything i probably wouldn't try once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
in no particular order:
food (this should say "good" food but that's subjective)
sneakers
cuddling/make outs
showering
laughter
also, i hate that this thing is limited to six--maybe i should change one of my answers to "more things."
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what other people on the subway are listening to, mah jongg, my family and friends and how much i love them.
i guess that also means created families, identity politics, queer theory, and gender re:construction. the problematic things with being a white passing mixed race queer. how people treat others or assume things about them. i think about a lot of things. go on a date with me and you'll think about some more.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Let's talk thursdays: Throwing monthly queer mixers in NYC called Select All.

dancing on a bar in hotpants, staring at the stars
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an actual encyclopedia entry.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you want to go on food adventures, sound walks through the city, find hidden treasures, and laugh a lot.
you like karaoke, dancing, felines, and intrigue. and fun. please like having fun.
you understand that i am much more than this profile paints me to be.
you get that monogomy and monotony are not options for me.
you know what ftm means and respect it. you are not transphobic, homophobic, classist,sexist, or racist.