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42 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:35pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Music loving native New Yorker looking for someone to go out and have fun with, and explore possibilities. I grew up in Queens and live in Brooklyn. I'm a chef at a hotel in midtown. Cynical optimist. GGG. I like dark, divey bars, good food, and strong drinks. Road trips, baseball, cooking, and traveling abroad. There's a lot more to me than these little boxes though, so if you want to know more...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying not to take it too seriously.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Going there, jukebox sets, ordering for the table. Knowing where the sample came from on that old school hip hop song. Ya mama jokes. Jeopardy. Inappropriate laughter
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
there's a funky horn section following me, playing my theme music.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Catch 22, Confederacy of Dunces, Game of Thrones series, The Godfather, The Right Stuff, Sirens of Titan, Freakonomics, Outliers, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, Junky, and this

Movies: In Bruges, Trading Places, True Romance, Snatch, Say Anything, The Big Lebowski, Usual Suspects, Raising Arizona, Caddyshack, Legends of the Fall, Swingers, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Drugstore Cowboy, Full Metal Jacket, The Pope of Greenwich Village, The Dirty Dozen, Tombstone.

TV: Broad City, Archer, Jeopardy, Walking Dead, The Honeymooners, Game of Thrones, House of Cards, Orange is the New Black, Shameless, Louie, Top Gear, Nurse Jackie, Seinfeld, The Wire, Jeopardy, Arrested Development, The Tonight Show Starring Johnny Carson, Larry Sanders Show, Ren & Stimpy.

Music: Pixies, The Breeders, James Brown, Deee-Lite, L7, The Cars, Fugazi, Eric B & Rakim, A Tribe Called Quest, Brand Nubian, De La Soul, Desmond Dekker, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, The Jam, Trombone Shorty, Sam Cooke, Bo Diddley, Wanda Jackson, The Smiths, Wu Tang Clan, The Buzzcocks, Al Green, Etta James, Weezer, The Clash, The Stooges, The Pogues, David Bowie, Violent Femmes, The English Beat, The Vaselines, The Kinks, Pixies.

Food/Drink: Tacos, chicken parm, barbecue, ramen, offal, pasta, fresh bread, cheese, bourbon, negroni's, orange flavored seltzer, sriracha, Jarritos Toronja
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
is there an answer that doesn't make me sound like a pretentious ass? Yeah those things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what condition my condition is in.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
gettin' funkaaaay
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like kale
You should message me if
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you make the rockin' world go 'round