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45 Brooklyn, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 37–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:38pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Juniper berries, tall skies, tool belt and vintage cars... Traveled to NY from Berlin via Chi-town, leaving behind pink hair and booming speakers to lo-fi tunes and minimized closet space.
I'm a fast walker and fearless driver, a learner and accumulator of experiences, a dreamer and idealistic realist, a citizen of the world. I run my own business in fashion, yet I still don't understand what motivates people to follow any fad that comes along. Style is timeless, as is integrity.
What I’m doing with my life
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Half the time regretting that there is not enough time to explore all the things I would like to explore. So I try to take it in a little at a time, whenever I can, wherever I can.
I started a business making patterns for fashion designers seven years ago. I love my work, but don't consider it my life. (although this work/ play balance thing can still be challenging)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Using my hands: making clothes, throwing together a tasty meal from the remnants in the fridge, keeping a nice home. I know how to build a table and pitch a tent. I'm great at moving, too. You'd want me around if the world came to an end. I'm also good at planning trips- making them feel entirely spontaneous while always having a place to sleep at night. Did I say that you'd want me around?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe a slight accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I don't have a TV which means that I probably read more or spend more time on Netflix when trying to escape reality.
Here is what I've enjoyed in no particular order:

Books: Disgrace-Coetzee, Ghostwritten- Mitchell, Just Kids- Patti Smith, anything by Kureishi, Mr. Wilsons Cabinet of Wonder- Weschler, The God of Small Things- Roy, The Book of Illusions- Auster

Artists: Cy Twombly, Louise Bourgeois, Gerhard Richter, Neo Rauch, Richard Serra...

Movies: Lost in Translation; Splendor in the Grass; Klute; Paris, Texas; Bagdad Cafe; The Graduate; The Piano; On the Warterfront; The Lives of Others...

Music: Stereolab, The Sea and Cake, Kaki King, Tortoise, Tindersticks, The Shins, Miles Davis, David Bowie, John Fahey, Dusty Springfield, Nina Simone, Scott Walker, Gillian Welsh.....

Food: I'd like to say 'just about anything', but let me make that 'just about anything good, as long as it's gluten free'.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Theo the cat
a good friend
gluten free food
my inner compass
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Daily: how to make a better fitting garment
Often: form and function, people and what motivates them, language, memory and the occasional loss thereof, the places I still want to travel to.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
playing it by ear.
You should message me if
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You like what you see and you like what you read and you like yourself.