I’m an independent person who is comfortable being on my own, but would love to be with someone who makes me feel lucky and who makes me laugh.
Affection is almost always a good thing.
I am generally attracted to people that are different than me in some way – culture, upbringing, profession, etc. – but need to share core values with the person I’m with.
How someone treats waiters, cab drivers and cashiers is a good indication of the kind of person they are.
Intelligence and curiosity can be very sexy.
Being single is not always fun, but it’s much worse to feel alone in a relationship.
As for the logistics, I'm definitely a city girl - I've lived in Brooklyn for over 20 years, in Crown Heights for the last five - so if you're settled out in the suburbs we're probably not the best match.
And loving to dance is good – preferably salsa or tango – but that’s a bonus, not a requirement.
Hopefully the rest we could figure out.