Although I’m an independent person who is comfortable being on my own, it's wonderful to have someone to care about, and who cares about you and is comfortable letting you know it.
Affection is almost always a good thing.
I am generally attracted to people that are different than me in some way – culture, upbringing, profession, etc. – but need to share core values with the person I’m with.
How someone treats waiters, cab drivers and cashiers is a good indication of the kind of person they are.
Intelligence and curiosity can be very sexy.
Texting is convenient, but when it matters talking is generally better.
Being single is not always fun, but it’s much worse to feel alone in a relationship.
As for the logistics, I'm definitely a city girl - I've lived in Brooklyn for 20 years, in Crown Heights for the last four, so if you're settled out in the suburbs we're probably not the best match.
And loving to dance is good – preferably salsa or tango – but that’s a bonus, not a requirement.
Hopefully the rest we could figure out.