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bklynbbq

38 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:55am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I realized, (or maybe I've just accepted) that I like bullet points and factoids. I don't think that's a by-product of smart-phones and internets. I'm sure I've always been like that. Give me the back of a cereal box and I can repeat the trivia to you in 20 minutes.

That being said (and if you're still with me) I'll break it down:

- Travel. Yes, I know, everyone says they like to travel and everyone thinks they're Earnest Hemingway. But I can't avoid writing it. At least two months a year I'm out seeing the world: South America, Central America, Europe, and just last month India. Sorry it's not original. But I'm addicted.
- I'm a geek. Not in a way that's off-putting I assure you. I don't eat paste. My fly is zipped and I don't have a segue. I mean it in the most endearing sort of way as in "I unapologetically like what I like despite it's aesthetic." As in: I like comic books, boardgames and yes, I have an opinion why Kirk is awesome. I don't expect anyone else to be on board with my taste but I don't believe in irony.
- I work in television and I really love what I do. Not every day, and not all the time. But often I work on projects that make it a pleasure to go in in the morning.
- My dog is my buddy. Not my only friend because that would be depressing but it's the best part of the day when I come home and he greets me at the door.
- I'm an atheist and a liberal. Maybe people out there that would call me a "socialist"? I honestly don't think that's the case, because I veer quite far from that. But I believe that global warming is a real thing, dinosaurs existed, and that it's not weird for a man to marry another man and a woman to marry another woman.
- I'm happy. Most of the time.
- I think Kurt Russel is great in just about everything and I don't care what you say. Big Trouble in Little China? Yes please.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I'm perfecting the balance of work and travel. I've gotten pretty good at it and have managed to see a lot of the world. The problem is it's addictive and now I want to see more and travel more. But I also like what I do for work. And it's always nice to come home and hang with my dog and my friends.
The long term plan? To become an expat. Preferably somewhere warm and by the beach. I'll be playing dominoes with the locals, drink in my hand.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Making you laugh.
- Making myself laugh.
- I can make a great Bloody Mary.
- My awesome Bill Cosby impersonation.
- Standing on the platform where the subway doors will stop.
- Oh, you also want me on your trivia team. Just sayin'.
The first things people usually notice about me
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- I have some sort of facial hair.
- If I'm lucky I'm tan from somewhere I've been.
- Other then that? Glasses, and not balding...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
TV: Arrested Development, Deadwood, Party Down, Breaking Bad, Mad Men, Rome, The Wire, No Reservations, Game of Thrones, Louie... quite a few now - TV shows these days have been pretty awesome.

MOVIES: Back to the Future (1 and 2), The Wild Bunch, The Warriors, Friday, RoboCop, Rosemary's Baby, anything by PT Anderson or Terrence Mallick... on and on and on...

BOOKS: East of Eden, Bonfire of the Vanities, You Can't Win, Fortress of Solitude, mostly anything by Cormac McCarthy... and plenty of guilty indulgences...

MUSIC: Bruce, Tom Petty, Dinosaur Jr., Wilie Nelson, Bowie, Leonard Cohen, Biggie, Curtis Mayfield, Ike & Tina, The Faces, Motorhead, Prince, The Smiths... And a lot of other stuff. I recently just discovered William Onyeabor so that's been getting a lot of play. Actually, there's not really a genre that I don't like (within reason folks... no white power or christian rock for me...)

FOOD: Hard pressed to think of food I don't like. I mean there are specifics sure... I love BBQ all kinds from everywhere... but yeah, I'm not a picky eater.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my dog, my friends, traveling, music, seltzer... that's five but what else does a guy need?
* I've since reconsidered and have decided that sandwiches are without a doubt on the list*
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to travel to next. What my next work project will be. How to be happier (not unhappy, but always room for improvement...)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe I'll grab a quick after work drink. Maybe I'll meet a friend or two or three for dinner. Or maybe I'll head over to my buddies house for a night of nerdy boardgames, beer and whiskey. But isn't Thursday the new Friday? And isn't Wednesday the new Thursday? So that makes Friday a Saturday. Right?!?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I forget how old I am. Not as in "I'm a kid still." I honestly just forget the number.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- Well, you've liked what you've read so far. And that doesn't mean having the exact same interests as me. That would be boring.
- You're unpretentious.
- You have a fun streak, a sweet streak and a mean streak (just a healthy little bit of acidity that can make for some great comedy.)
- You're honest with yourself and with other people.
- You're up for meeting in person.
- You're really not afraid of hanging out with someone who's nice and honest with you.