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24 Ða Kao, Vietnam Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–34
  • Near me
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My Details

Last Online
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6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Too busy/lazy to update this.... On tour with in Asia & LA from 11/28/14 thru 1/4/15. Seoul, Hong Kong, Bangkok, Singapore, Saigon, then solo Hanoi, Mui Ne (vietnam also) & LA.

Brooklyn native. Chicago is second home. Berlin transplant. DJ with wanderlust.

about to come back to NY for a month or so on each end of an Asia tour that i'm real hype for.
What I’m doing with my life
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Striving to find the right balance of grind, creativity, recreation, & and not getting too caught up in that to remember to just be in the world and do me. Traveling. Spinning parties, working in music, trying to build meaningful things. Helping run a niche booking agency based in Berlin. Going on tours to spin records for my friends. Music supervision. Some writing & a tad of web design. Not settling or treading water.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not being boring.
People person. (ENTP)
Operating turntables/making people dance and/or feel some type of way.
People like my writing.
I can cook some things.
Other stuff.

coming up with shitty usernames.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Tall/long hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Not a picky eater. I don't really eat fast food though. I love sushi, oysters, jerk chicken, tom ka gai, tonkotsu, pizza, dim sum, lamb...

My life is music. All my friends are a good portion of my favorite living musicians. I've been blessed to play shows with a lot of the others also. Imma just leave it at that, it's too much to write down.

City of God is my favorite movie. I also love The Brother from Another Planet, The Outlaw Josie Wales, Diva, My Beautiful Laundrette, Battle of Algiers, Kids, The Big Lebowski, The Talented Mr. Ripley, The Warriors, Lost in Translation, La Femme Nikita,The Good Bad and The Ugly, Raising Victor Vargas, Bonnie & Clyde, Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid, Sin Nombre, and a whole bunch of other flix.

I rarely miss The Daily Show. Louie. True Detective, Mad Men, House of Cards, Archer, yada yada yada Law & Order marathons are great for getting over hangovers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
boxes to fill out on okcupid.

actually just boxes to fill out.

emails from Dustin Hoffman begging me for the last $5 needed to save the world via the Democratic Senatorial campaign in West Virginia or some shit.


overdraft fees.

salad dressing in my pasta and pasta sauce in my salad.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
music & sex & social justice.

the fact that we (humans) were around for like 100,000 years before agriculture & civilization and seemed to be doing pretty good - and how the myth of the garden of eden seems to be referencing that fuck up of ours.

where in the world I want to go next and how to make it happen.

trying to honestly examine my own role in the white supremacist patriarchy that is global capitalism and trying to find the energy to battle it to the best of my ability.

Nerding out on music and/or NBA basketball and/or art thingz.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting paid, getting drunk, or getting rest. Or some combination, usually.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty into polyamory. That's not really private. I'm definitely not closed to monogamous 'normal' relationships, I just think it's an arbitrary standard, often causes undue problems, and can sometimes place unnecessary and unhealthy restraints on people. Not big on jealousy. And it's fun.

Don't read into it.
You should message me if
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If you are comfortable in your wonderful weirdness.

you're at least 50% grown up, but definitely not 100%.

Also a plus if you like a wide array of music.
if you know who.. let's say, pharaoh sanders and pharaohe monch are and, say, louis armstrong and lil' louis... then we'll probably get along. If not, that's cool too.