I'm not looking for anything on the "down low" nor am I interested in sneaking around with someone else who is. If you have a significant other, they should know you have a profile here. I'm not trying to "out" you as a gay/bi male or couple with such but I'm not interested in liars or cheaters either. Yes I am married, and I'm not being a hypocrite.
My wife knows what's going on and is supportive of it. She however, is not interested in playing with other men so, to all the fellas looking to meet up with a couple, this isn't the place. Thank you all for the interest and the emails, but consider me "solo" for purposes of this profile.
Other than that, I am a work in progress. I have worked as a military linguist, an engineer, a mountain climbing instructor, a box thrower (UPS guy), an English teacher and any number of other things.
Defining who I am has taken a lifetime, so far, and I'm sure will take at least one or two more.
I am more than my job or my sexuality, but less than what I become with the Love of those I have around me. I'm a father and husband first and foremost. My children are like the sun and my world revolves around them. This also applies to my wife. Nothing else is ever put in front of their needs.
I'm active, energetic, outgoing, and generally a "glass-half-full" kind of person. I'm a realist, though, so I have varied opinions on everything. I will talk about them, if given a chance.
I'm looking for people who are comfortable being adventurous. Discussion of what that means can lead in many different directions and is driven primarily by the relationship dynamic so I'll leave it for a face to face.
I like spending a lot of time outside being active; climbing, hiking, kayaking, scuba diving or some similar form of activity. Sports are good to play but I don't watch them very often--never, actually, unless someone else has it on. I have tattoos and piercings. I don't expect the world to like me, and don't really care if it does, but I think most people who get to know me actually do.
I don't have major issues with authority, but I question it all the time. I'm raising my children to do the same, because sheeple aren't my idea of a good thing.
I am confident, engaging, and enigmatic