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46 Brooklyn, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:11am
Black, Native American, White, Other
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Yiddish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm a Brooklyn-based artist; college grad (Cooper Union & Sarah Lawrence); Mensa-smart; comfortably self-employed. I consider myself to be a feminist / womanist with deeply embedded egalitarian values, but I tend to take the dominant role in relationships.

I'm oriented towards poly connections, but too concerned about staying completely std-free to sleep with a bunch of random women; instead, I'm hoping to have meaningful and lasting relationships with a few bisexual women of color, ideally in such a way that they interacted with each other to the same extent that they interacted with me.

It would be great to find someone who shared an interest in the arts, music, burlesque, film, hiking, yoga, and healthy food. It would be especially great if that person had a good deal of flexibility in her schedule, because I like to travel, and would love to have a travel partner.

The ideal women would be 25-45, childless, smart, sane, creative, responsible, warm / affectionate / nurturing, feminine, well-traveled, well-read, and into the arts / academia / social justice. Bonus points for being bi-racial, bi-cultural, bi-lingual, bi-coastal…any "bi" except bi-polar.

Physically, I'm most attracted to plump and curvy women (ample hourglass rather than spherical – like Jill Scott or pre-weight watchers Jennifer Hudson), who are all-natural (i. e. unstraightened hair, little or no make-up, no fake body parts, etc.), and I'm a sucker for freckles and really big, natural, gravity-defying hair.
What I’m doing with my life
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I own an independent film production company and a rental management company, and I travel when I can (lots of countries, most of the states, and the occasional Burning Man).

I'm from Cali, but I split my time between NYC and New Orleans.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping you entertained.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tend to notice my height, my eyes, and my racial ambiguity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Ethical Slut; People's History of the United States; anything and everything by Octavia Butler

Movies: Django Unchained; 12 Years a Slave; Annie Hall

TV: HTGAWM; Walking Dead; Game of Thrones

Music: New Orleans Brass Band; Folk; '80s Synth-pop
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Technology

2. Nature

3. Grey Poupon & hot sauce

4. Self-expression

5. Love & affection

6. Flesh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. Interior design.

2. How to survive the upcoming financial collapse / global pandemic / miscellaneous apocalypse.

3. Sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most of my social life revolves around cultural events, but if there's nothing going on, I'll either be coated in paint and renovation dust, or binge-watching Scandal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a pretty big nerd.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you share similar interests, and want to hang out with someone who can make you laugh more than you thought someone could.