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BlackBench

28 / M / Straight / Single

Downham Market, United Kingdom

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:49am
Ethnicity
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Height
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Body Type
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Diet
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Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
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Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
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Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I am a private person.
I am a shy introvert.
I like to be creative.
I am a very cautious decision maker.
I'm pretty oblivious to a lot of social cues.
I am intolerant of intolerance, and only judgmental of judgement.
I am a feminist.
What I’m doing with my life
I used to work in childcare and playwork, in nurseries and after school clubs. Sometimes summer playschemes for children with special needs. I enjoyed it enormously, and I do miss it a bit.

I'm gone from that to creating computer games, and also bizarrely sometimes getting paid to make stories out of playing them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I sometimes have a stammer. But it's not as bad as it usually first appears, because I think it's at its worst when I'm introducing myself.
The six things I could never do without
The internet, perhaps. Going unplugged for an extended time feels like disconnecting a portion of my brain now.

Once upon a time, I would have a list of objects with memories attached that I would have recited here. But I think I'm more attached to the idea of independence now. Nothing I own is essential or irreplaceable.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether I'm using my life in the best way I can.
What the world might need to stop being fucked up, and how I might contribute to that.
How I could use behaviour trees to create the illusion of loneliness in little computer people, and other geeky game designer things.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I can find enough other players, I'll be trying to start a board game. Otherwise, I'll be absorbed in coding something on my laptop.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am not very experienced at this.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 19–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners