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43 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight men only
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:46am
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love getting to know people and making new friends. I'm thoughtful, loyal, a great listener and love to have fun and find adventure with friends and new aquaintances...I can be serious, playful, fun, mischievous and pensive (not all at the same time, don't worry lol)

At a place in life where I like to surround myself with people that enhance my life, challenge me in a good way and help me be my best self. No time for faux relationships, hook ups or someone who doesn't know what it means to follow through, show up and be present.

I stay active and love hiking, yoga/Pilates/Bar Method, dancing and exploring what LA has to offer. Huge fan of the "staycation"...

And food...oh yes food! Big foodie right here. Love checking out new spots with friends on a regular basis. Some of my favorites include Republique, POT, Black Hogg, Herringbone....too many to name...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making the most of it!!!

I love to travel and took my first solo trip abroad to New Zealand after college. One of the best decisions I ever made.

Since then I have been fortunate to have had jobs that required me to travel the world, and I try to take personal vacation somewhere new every year.

On the list next year? Bali, Nicaragua or Thailand.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Let me dancing, finding adventures in the city and giving big hugs!! I'm loyal to my friends and loved ones and have an excellent B.S. detector, but a huge heart. I'm also a pretty good cook I've been told ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well visually speaking..that I have a great tan ;-).....and I'm tall 5'10. But don't be scared. I only bite sometimes....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Currrently reading: Daring Greatly,, Huffington Post, Power of Now.

Past and favorite reads: Half the Sky, Go Tell it On the Mountain, Kite Runner, Little Prince, Tao of Pooh, Temple of My Familiar, Bluest Eye, Invisible Man, Tipping Point.

Like to listen: Bernhoft, Gary Clark Jr., Allen Stone, Ali Farka and Ry Cooder, Frank Ocean, Bruno Mars, Tribe Called Quest, Mi'Shell Ndegeocello, Corinne Bailey Rae, D'Angelo, Incubus, Stevie Wonder, Etta James, Adele, Alicia Keys,Ozomatli, Kanye West, Jay Z, Santana, Gavin DeGraw, MJ, P!nk, Jack Johnson, Mumford and Sons, Nina Simone...the list goes on..
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Health
2) Good Friends
3) A Good Book
4) Great Food and Wine
5) Fun
6) Being in the sunshine near the water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my next great adventure will take me..
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Up for anything...nice music, quiet night at home. Good company, good food, good wine, great laughter and conversation and I am happy!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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It wouldn't be private anymore if I admit it :-)... but if you are genuine and get to know me I might reveal a thing or two...
You should message me if
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If you know what it means to step up and be present in a relationship when it's easy and when it's difficult.

You're an open-minded person with a sense of fun and humor and open to dating people of all ethnicities (no ethnic fetishes please).

You think we might have chemistry on an intellectual and physical level and have something in common besides the fact you think I'm cute ;-).