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blackhatmatt

40 Cleveland, OH Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 21
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Overweight
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Education
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi! I'm Matt. Let's assume I said something really, really witty here and you're immediately intrigued.

In the interest of getting the important stuff out of the way up front: I'm poly, and not unattached. I'm married, and I have a girlfriend on top of my wife. Not literally on top of her.

That doesn't mean I'm unavailable. I like meeting new people, both in the interest of sex and just because I like people. If we click, I can make time for you. If we don't click, then no worries.

I have two kids. They live with me part time (less during the school year, just because of scheduling). My ex-wife and I have a perfectly stable friendship and we raise the kiddos together. My kids are the most important thing to me. If you don't have kids, that's fine. If you don't want kids, that's also fine. If you don't like kids, probably best to pass me by.

I'm a gamer. To clarify: I enjoy video games (at present, Assassins' Creed is my time sink, though Rock Band is another favorite). Gaming-wise, though, my real passion is roleplaying games of the table-top variety. I've been playing them since I was 11 and I've been writing such games professionally since...what, 1998?

I'm bisexual. My "type" for guys, though, is pretty different than my preferences for women. But really, let's take things on a case by case basis.

I'm a foodie. I love to cook. If you ping me and we click, I'll probably invite you to come over and have dinner. No expectations there, except to meet my wife and my dogs and see how we click.

Still with me? OK, then. If at any point you decide, "hey, this bald guy is OK by me," send me a message and we'll go from there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I talked a little about this above, but: I'm a speech-language pathologist and I work for the Cleveland school district. I love my job, at least the "work with kids with communication issues" part.

My wife and I run an RPG company called Growling Door Games. You can check us out here.

And beyond that...I watch movies, I play games, I cook, I try and teach my kids that life is awesome. Stuff like that.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Oh, dear. I'm reliably informed that I cook well, I run a damn fine RPG and I'm a good kisser. It might be cliche, I guess, but I'm a good listener.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hat! I usually wear a black hat of some variety, though not when it would be rude to wear one. I have multiple tattoos, but they aren't really visible if I'm dressed. I'm bald. I have weird, mutable-colored eyes. I'm passionate and outspoken, and if I don't check myself I can be a little overbearing. I do try and check that, though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh, geez. OK.

Books: Watership Down, Stranger in a Strange Land, Van Gogh's Bad Cafe, the Dresden Files.

Movies: Shawshank Redemption, The Incredibles, The Lost Boys, most slasher flicks, and hundreds of others. I'm a movie buff.

TV: Leverage, Dexter, Blackadder, The Muppet Show, Chopped, Iron Chef America.

Food: Yes. I love to cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My kids
-Human contact
-Sex
-Hugs
-Coffee (well, "never" is a strong word, but really, it's a vice)
-Gaming
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The six things above, really, occupy a lot of my brainspace.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday night is usually the night my kiddos come over, but it's flexible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
OK, what kind of sense does that make? If I admit it on the Internet, it's hardly private anymore. Hm. Well, I'm openly bi, poly and atheist. I think that's three pretty good risks to take, yeah?
You should message me if
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If you've read this far and I seem interesting, ping me. I can't promise we'll click. I can promise I'll pay attention.