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bladelakem

40 M Mountlake Terrace, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 2:21pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Update: I am coming out of my shell a bit. I will put more here soon. In the meantime, I respond to messages. (Not that there is a lot here for you to go on, but hey...)

I am a bisexual, gender dysphoric, polyamorous, transhumanist, technomystical pagan gamer geek. No, I'm not sure what that is either.

I am married to the lovely eleri and we are in a polyamorous marriage.

I am a quiet person with a loud mind.

I'm a homebody. I'm happy to just stay home with people I care about, watch TV or movies, play games, shoot the breeze, etc.

I'm really shy. I like people, I just have trouble meeting people and being in busy social situations. Once I get comfortable with you, however, you can't get me to shut up....
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm the big quiet guy that looks like every second guy at the local RenFaire (long hair, beard, overweight - just put a pewter mug in my hand and tell me to say 'huzzah' and I'd blend in seamlessly).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dresden Files, Walker Papers, Dune, The Illuminatus! trilogy, Callahan's Crosstime Saloon, The Belgariad, The Foundation Series, Mistborn, The Books of Swords, Web Mage, Kushiel's Dart, The Onion Girl, Rendezvous with Rama, Snow Crash, Hitchhikers Guide, Watchmen

Movies: Adventures of Buckaroo Banzai Across the 8th Dimension, Scott Pilgrim vs the World, Big Trouble in Little Child, Serenity, Blazing Saddles, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Tron, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along-Blog, The Avengers, Lord of the Rings

TV: Babylon 5, Sing-Off, Firefly, Defiance, Face Off, Lost, Warehouse 13, Game of Thrones, Castle, The Voice (guilty pleasure), Tron: Uprising

Music: Pentatonix; Nerdcore (for life!): MC Frontalot, MC Lars, Beefy, Dr. Awkward, Zealous1, Antisocial, ytcracker, MC Diabeats; Bone Poets Orchestra; Indigo Girls; Rolling Stones; Madonna; lots of soundtracks

Food: Pad Thai, Mexican, Italian, Pizza, simple foods (grilled cheese, quesadillas, hamburgers, etc), Diet Soda

Video Games: (it's not in the list, but this is the 21st century) Myst, Ingress, Guild Wars 2, Myst, The Secret World, old Infocom games, Myst, Plants vs Zombies, Loom, Monkey Island, Myst...

Role-playing games: FateCore, Unwritten, Dresden Files RPG, Amber Diceless, Eclipse Phase, GURPS, Unknown Armies, Feng Shui, old World of Darkness, Mistborn
The six things I could never do without
Time to myself
Time with other people
Wordplay
Regular internet connectivity
Diet soda
Things to talk about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Almost Everything. I'm a compulsive introspection-ist.
On a typical Friday night I am
Spending time with family. Goofing off on the computer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've just emerged from the metaphorical underworld and I've got a bit of recovery to do, as does my entire family. That means that my life has an unusual (and to some incomprehensible) spin to it. Leave your preconceptions and judgments at the door.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like bipolypagangamergeeks....
If you know what Quenya, D'ni or Lojban is, and you think it's really cool....
If you like Myst....
If you want to talk about devising personal spiritual traditions...
If you understand why Optimus Prime is a modern representation of the Undying King....
If you don't mind having a good chunk of our interaction being over the Internet (I'm part digital)....
If you want to play experimental RPGs....
If your idea of a hot date would get you stoned most Islamic countries and many parts of rural America (or might confuse the muggles)....
If you want to explore unreal worlds, both virtual and astral....
If you think conversations with the phrases 'augmented virtual identity', 'velar unvoiced fricative' or 'polytribal decentralized social network' sound really cool....

And if you want to do any of the above concurrently or consecutively, run (don't walk) to the message button.