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blainebear

27 Lawton, OK Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Dec 20
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Hey! I'm looking to make friends first and foremost.... I love food, dancing, social drinking and conversation. I have a pretty sharp sense of humor and the ability to converse about a wide variety of topics. I'm gender queer and identify as a LeatherDyke (if you want the skinny on that, hit my inbox). My partner and I share a non-vanilla dynamic that can be classified as mildly monogamous. That being said-- I love to flirt NSA. I also love to talk aboutgender/sexuality, literature, business, alternate lifestyle practices, history...really I just like to talk. :)

Hobbies: I love to cook, so hit me up if you're into some solid southern comfort food. I watch a ton of Netflix but would prefer conversation. I love to READ. I've an active book obsession. If you do too, we should geek out together.

If you're local--let's grab a coffee or a beer. If you're from a far, let's still chat. I don't bite...unless it's consensual. 😉
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Store Manager at Starbucks-- I love my job and happily work too much. I'll finish my MBA this spring.

I love to learn and consider myself a lifetime student. I'm active in a Leather club in Tulsa that is useful for filling my community service penchant.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading. math. cracking jokes. cooking southern cuisine. driving too fast. listening. learning. certain alternative lifestyle practices. admitting fault. laughing at myself. getting other people to laugh at me, too.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm pretty easy to get along with.... And maybe my hair. I am a little obsessed with fresh haircuts....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books - anything with dragons or magic. i wish i was kidding. After that, the only prerequisite is that it needs to be written in English (my French literacy is a bit rusty)

movies - this is an ever evolving list. i probably go to the theaters an average of 4-5 times a month and watch Netflix movies on the regular. I'm not a TV watcher by nature, but sometimes I get hooked into series on NF.

music - largely anything electronically influenced. i claim to have terrible taste in music as i enjoy all the things music snobs hate (tay swift, drake, techno, etc). but I do like pretty much everything that's not western or choral music.

food - easier to say what i don't like: condiments. and sweet pickles.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my nook app.
Asian food.
meaningful work that challenges me.
sports bras.
punctuation marks.
my Leather.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
.....the forbidden. Doesn't everyone? :)
You should message me if
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you want to hang out, grab a coffee, be friends.