Freedom of thought, curiosity, sarcasm, literature, music, darkness, exploring new souls, passion, tolerance, kindness, intelligence, wit, charm & grace...
*Edit, some years later: Life has changed, the abovementioned things haven't. These are the things I look for, and rarely find, in friends and lovers. I've been called picky but I see it as being rational - with the limited time we have on this earth, why spend it with people who bring you down& use your energy and take everything and give nothing? I value opinions and personality (it is possible to not have one, I've noticed).
I am bright, alert, and responsive. (These "define yourself in three words" -words come from the early days of OKC, and I'm keeping them here for the sake of nostalgia and because I think they do describe my personality).
I'm also spectaculary old-fashioned in that I'm not in Facebook or any other social media site (I have a twitter account that I'm effectively not using). I still prefer email and regular phone calls. I'd send snailmail if it wasn't so darn slow. (I used to love writing and receiving letters, you know, paper ones, long ago in a different world. Now you don't learn to recognize people's handwriting anymore.. it's a shame, and so much history (personal and cultural) is lost because of this.)
I am generous and loyal to my friends and will always value relationships over money. My ambitions and motivations have little to do with posessions or career moves.
I dream of life in the country side & wide open spaces, work that has nothing to do with my current job, traveling (I have a top100 list of places to see), getting a kitty (not possible quite yet), having time to see all the movies and read all the books I want to, maybe doing some writing of my own.. Yeah, and of meeting someone I would want to do these things with.