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53 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:19am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Fiercely liberal, absurdist, empathetic. Addicted to endorphins. I daydream about infrastructure and logistics. I'm focused on work and personal health and trying to keep up with dozens of friendships but (ironically) would like to find fresh "activity partners", etc. in town.
Years ago I built a cabin on 60 acres by Elk Mountain with my ex and would like to do it again somewhere else and with more pre-fab and less cursing and divorcing.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm building an equipment finance consultancy. Which has a lot more drama than it sounds.
I'm also enjoying my city. There's more going on here than ever in the last thirty years.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Assembling IKEA crap. Riding a bicycle in traffic; dog and cat petting; conversing with strangers; arranging furniture (I used to load cargo planes and it's pretty much the same thing); helping people feel at ease. Picking styles and colors. Dealing with the servants.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a friendly smart-ass. Also the dents in my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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James Thurber
Hunter Thompson (sorry about the misogyny)
Robert Caro
F Scott Fitzgerald
Henry Petroski
most Kubrick
most Cary Grant
most Steve Martin
Billy Wilder
all Python (Monty)
Office Space
Pee Wee's Big Adventure
Marx Brothers
WC Fields
They Might Be Giants
Zappa (sorry about the perceived misogyny, etc.)
Nick Lowe
El Ten Eleven
PDQ Bach
Tom Leher
Regina Spektor
Salumeria hoagies at the Reading Terminal
all Asian, especially Vietnamese (how could we have fought these wonderful people all those years?)
really good donuts
Down Home Diner
Sesame Seitan at Su Xing House
Mi Lah
oatmeal, mmmmmm... oatmeal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I recently learned I could do without several things I used to think were crucial so this is a pretty serious list.
- eyeglasses (using them now!)
- good water, preferably filtered and cool
- iPhone and MacBook - I can't remember how I used to live before and I don't want to anyway; they convinced me to buy stock in Apple
- music: usually loud, fast, and complicated
- humor: either from professionals, amusing friends, myself (I kill me), or the world at large (listened to any Catholic radio lately?)
- plenty of unmolested sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Energy efficiency and equal access in transportation; social justice; donuts.
Wondering exactly when it started to be acceptable for women to walk around Center City in their underwear. I want to celebrate that day every year.
I used to be freaked out about middle age but now realize some things really do get easier the closer one is to death.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Taking a walk with a pal and/or riding my bike around Center City watching New Jerseyians navigate uneven sidewalks drunk and in heels. Which is getting old. Thus OK Cupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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To get to sleep instead of counting sheep I imagine old tires being shredded.
You should message me if
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You want to come to my office and play ping pong. Yes it's that kind of office.
You want to get a cup of something and sit in Rittenhouse Park. (Offer contingent on temperatures above 40 unless you are ridiculously cute and willing to hug me upon meeting)
You want to teach me yoga (gently).
You have a burning need to know the exciting facts behind the coming electrification of the US freight rail system.