If you want to get a hold of me just kik me @ bleachedhalo. Kik is a chat app for almost all smart phones.
First off my name is Christopher, I prefer Chris (now I'm kinda liking Christopher). The only people that call me Christopher are the women in my family... for some reason, so it's up to you, I answer to all lol
I'll get this right out in the open. I use to be a fairly closed off person, to a certain point I still kind of am, but all you got to do is ask, once I start a rambling, I could go on for hours, as long as you ramble with me ;) I am probably one of the rarest guys out there. I've never cheated and I don't think I could ever, I also get the door for everyone and anyone I can, I leave change in the give a Penney take a Penney and drop my change in the charity jars, I like hearing the females perspective on anything, I respect women, and could never hit a woman. I never have, never would, and would jump at the moment to stop any type of abuse. How many guys still do all that?
I can talk to anyone about anything and be fairly upbeat about it. I'm trying my best to be a more open and positive person so I can share more of myself and my feelings, but its a challenge.
I grew up in a negative home, I'm sure I'm not the only one, but somehow I turned out to be a really nice guy, and I have a very positive attitude in life, although at times I can be negative, but it eats at me inside afterwards. I don't like lies, but I joke around a lot so I can't say I don't lie, since most jokes are lie (think about it), and I hate hurting peoples feelings. I'm a grandma's boy and you can ask her and she'll even tell ya that, and that I'm her favorite and its a miracle that I turned out to be the man I am. By no means does that imply that I am perfect, on the contrary I'm far from it (we all are). Though I try to be perfect in any way I can, because even though you'll never be perfect, the harder you try, the closer to perfection you'll be. At least that's what I think.
I'm a geek, a nerd, a techie, a person that loves stories and technology. I love computers and art. Anything to do with technology or any form of art are things I can enjoy.
I'm a bit of a sap and I absolutely am a hopeless romantic. I love romance novels, comics, movies, you name it and I'm sure I'll like it if it has to do with romance. Yes that means that I'm looking and waiting for the one special magical person that stalls my heart and takes my breath away. I believe I'll find her somewhere at some point in my life. That's why I'm here at least :)
I'm a person that loves humor and sarcasm is an essential tool for humor. I use it and love to hear it. A girl that knows how to use sarcasm without being mean, is a girl that I can like.
Now, as for what I'd like to see in a woman.
I'm a pretty smart guy and I'd hate to sound conceited, but I know quite a bit about a lot. I absolutely love a woman that is smart. A woman that can carry a truly intellectual conversation is a total turn on, and when you can question me to a point of an inexplicable "I don't know", or prove me wrong when I believe I'm right. Stuff like that makes a real woman! If you can tell me stuff about science, technology, art, or history that I never knew, I'd be drooling and fawning all over you.
Another thing you should know about me.
I love art a lot and I love artistic women more.
I truly do.
If you can paint, draw, sculpt, write, sing, or anything artistic, that is a total plus in my book.
I'd love to be able and sit down with someone and paint together. That would be a lot of fun :D Maybe even paint each other (~_^)
Well I'm no where near done on the update, but that's good enough for now.