First off my name is Christopher, I prefer Chris. The only people that call me Christopher are the women in my family... for some reason, so it's up to you, I answer to both.
I'll get this right out in the open. I use to be a fairly closed off person, to a certain point I still kind of am, but all you got to do is ask, once I start a rambling, I could go on for hours, as long as you ramble with me ;) I can talk to anyone about anything and be fairly upbeat about it. I'm trying my best to be a more open and positive person so I can share more of myself and my feelings, but its a challenge. I'm not much a person that likes drama. If I want any, I'll watch T.V. I try not to get involved with people much because it almost seems like work. By that I mean in no way do I keep up with the local gossip and for the most part nor do I care to hear it.
I grew up in a fairly negative home, I'm sure I'm not the only one, but somehow I turned out to be a really nice guy, although at times I can be negative, but it eats at me inside afterwards. I try not to lie, and I hate hurting peoples feelings. I'm a grandma's boy and you can ask her and she'll even tell ya that, and that I'm here favorite and its a miracle that I turned out to be the man I am. By no means does not imply that I am perfect, on the contrary I'm far from it. Though I try to be perfect in any way I can, because even though you'll never be perfect, the harder you try, the closer to perfection you'll be. At least that's what I think.
I'm a geek, a nerd, a techie, a person that loves stories and technology. I love computers and art. Anything to do with technology or any form of art are things I can enjoy.
I'm a bit of a sap and I absolutely am a hopeless romantic. I love romance novels, comics, movies, you name it and I'm sure I'll like it if it has to do with romance. Yes that means that I'm looking and waiting for the one special magical person that stalls my heart and takes my breath away. I believe I'll find her somewhere at some point in my life. That's why I'm here at least :)
I'm a person that loves humor and sarcasm is an essential tool for humor. I use it and love to hear it. A girl that knows how to use sarcasm without being mean is a girl that I can like.
Now, as for what I'd like to see in a woman.
I'm a pretty smart guy and I'd hate to sound conceited, but I know quite a bit about a lot. I absolutely love a woman that is smart. A woman that can carry a truly intellectual conversation is a total turn on, and when you can question me to a point of an inexplicable "I don't know", or prove me wrong when I believe I'm right. Stuff like that makes a real woman! If you can tell me stuff about science, technology, art, or history that I never knew, I'd be drooling and fawning all over you. This might offend some women out there, and I personally know a few that live off this stuff; drama and gossip. Now, knowing a lot and knowing a lot of drama are totally different. I have no concern or care about what Becky did to Steve, because Laura said the he did blah blah blah. To me it's let them live their life, you live your own. You want drama? Well TNT, AMC, and USA have plenty, so go there if you want it. I'm sorry a had to type that, but I'm honest.
Another thing you should know about me.
I love art a lot and I love artistic women more.
I truly do.
If you can paint, draw, sculpt, write, sing, or anything artistic, that is a total plus in my book.
I'd love to be able and sit down with someone and paint together. That would be a lot of fun :D Maybe even paint each other (~_^)
Well I'm no where near done on the update, but that's good enough for now.