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bleujamers

43 / F / straight / Single

Boise, Idaho

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Honest, playful, and wacky.

My Self-Summary

I'm a carefree, fun, young spirited woman who loves lifefully and playfully and wants to have a partner to share it with. I've recently gotten a good wake-up call for living life to the fullest.

Everyday is a new day to explore, learn and expand within myself and in life. Oh, and I also laugh alot! I can appreciate a well rounded guy. I am very careful about who I surround myself with. I am a very positive person and that frame of mind is the most important thing about me. I will not entertain myself with things or people in life that do not feel good. I have no problem saying no to something that I don't want to do. I am respectful of others and incredible honest. I am a good communicator and you will always know where things stand with me.

I rarely let a day go wasted if I can experience something new, or spend time with someone that I care deeply about. People are very important to me. I have a huge heart, a deep mind and a wise and young spirit!

I like to be active and I also like to stay home at times and just be. I think that I am very blalanced in life.

What I’m doing with my life

Painting! Artwork! Having fun! Petsitting! I do alot of things....

I'm pursuing my artwork here in Boise, along with many other things that are keeping me busy. I'm a very whole person who has a full life, with friends, adventures and lots of laughs.

I'm also working on publishing a children's book to inspire and help children to believe in themselves and uplift them.

Creating memories...Making every day count!

I’m really good at

Seeing people for who they really are.... knowing a situation before it unfolds completely... eating great food.... connecting with people... being with my dog.... being alone.... happy hour....sociallizing....creating... staying positive no matter what....being silly!

The first things people usually notice about me

That they feel comfortable around me. That I am easy to interact with. That I am playful and like to have fun, am easy going, that I like to laugh and stay upbeat. That I also have a very deep side and people always come to me for that type of conversation, when they want answers to understanding about themselves or a situation.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Oh geeze... too many books to name, but a few right now are...

The Four Agreements, The Power of Intention, Ask and it is Given

The last movie that really touched me was "August Rush". I don't go out to the movies very often, sometimes stay home (would be great to cuddle in this situation) and rent something. I do like movies at home, with perhaps a glass of wine and someone special to share it with!!

The six things I could never do without

The power of human touch,
cuddling, my dog,
friends and family, happy hour, (no I am not an acloholic)
Fine food, good wine, and the company of people that I love. Snow falling, the ocean, my comfy bed, life's inspiring moments & humor and gratitude.

Ok, I know that was more than six.... I tend to break the rules!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Myself, and what I am doing, how our thoughts create our day. The realm of spirit and how we are connected to each other.

Stupid jokes about nothing and everything. Books that I have just read, my artwork, books to write... life, people...sex.

On a typical Friday night I am

Looking for something fun or maybe nothing at all, depends.

But sometimes, spending time with friends, hearing music, eating.... A fine foofoo martini or a nice glass of wine, sleep. Sometimes a movie at home... a hot bath with candles.... Would love to share it with someone awesome!!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Not much! I feel like I'm an open book, but have been told differently. But, I'm sure there are things I would say in person that I wouldn't say on here...:)

Typical Scorpio answer huh?!

You should message me if

You understand what I've written here, and also want a fulfilling relationship, not just a one nighter or someone to entertain you because your don't want to be alone.

You are looking for a partnership not a penpal, or e-mail buddy.

You are kind, honest, happy, creative,fun, wacky, and sincere. You've got to love dogs, be a non smoker & non drug user. A light drinker OK... remember happy hour can be a good thing after a long day! Thanks!