I enjoy meeting new people and building friendships. I am not looking for a one-night stand. I only become intimate with someone that I have a more meaningful relationship (Ie, I don't hook up with randoms, people who are flaky or exhibit bad qualities of friendship, I want to like someone more than just their body before I fool around with them). Intimacy is important to me, but it doesn't mean I just go out giving tickets to ride. I hope you can see the value in that, if not, tough shit for you.
Essentially Read this article and if you contribute to the problem, no thanks (yes, it is by cosmo, but it a eloquently written piece about my generation's issue with proper dating): http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/college-dating-screwed-up