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36 Tucson, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:59pm
White, Other
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I'm fairly-laid back, and try to live my philosophy of not giving a fuck. I enjoy spending time with my friends having conversations, watching movies, drinking, eating out, partying, and playing games. I also like going for long drives, walks, basically any opportunity to get out alone or with a good buddy or, hopefully, a significant other. I read a lot, watch movies, occasionally go to shows, and waste time fucking about online.

I'm still kind of awkward about this whole dating thing, (yes, just awkward about dating, of course, that's the ticket,) and I'd like to take things slow. I'm not sure if I'm ready for a long term relationship. That might change and I'm trying to keep an open mind. At the moment though, I'm into just dating, being physically affectionate and having a good time with someone. I'm attending school to become a paralegal, and that is my priority.

Friends of any kind are super important to me. I need them and need to be needed by them. Talking and processing our lives, as well as just enjoying each others company, is a good thing.

I enjoy watching movies, good, cult, and bad, some TV, reading, watching baseball, Red Sox in particular, playing board and other tabletop games, going out (or in) for eating or drinks, camping, good conversation, and road trips, all in no particular order. I love travel, but haven't had a chance to do it in forever. I enjoy concerts, but keep forgetting to stay up to date on when they happen.

I spend a lot of my time thinking. My job gives me a lot of time to spend in my head. Ideas are important to me, and while some may find it annoying or uninteresting, I analyze things that interest me very heavily, and need to discuss them. I generally find that the more I discover about something, the more interesting it becomes, and the more I need to talk about it, even if the discussion goes nowhere. (This doesn't mean I can't turn off my brain sometimes, but even idle diversions can be examined.) Basically, I find it difficult to get along with people who can't hold conversations and discussions.

I am contradicting myself, large, and I contain multitudes

tl;dr: I like eating drinking, movies with robots or monsters and shit, the Red Sox, popular songs, and books about, among other things, boats or UFOs. I like to share those interests. I believe I know the best places to get wings in Tucson.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a cab driver, in school to no longer be a cab driver, trying this whole goal setting ambition thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating, listening to people I care about, petting cats, getting anxious about social situations, being a friend, conversation, sharing emotions and secrets, cooking (some) things, faking being a polymath, driving. Also, Having had just about enough of this shit.

Also, starting exercise and running plans, doing that for a while, then falling off the wagon. If you're good at that too, maybe we can help each other get worse at failing. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea. I have a difficult time conceiving of other people's concepts of me. My physical presence, I've been told. I'm 6', 240 lbs, so not for nothing I'm a bigger guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books & Authors: The Bell Jar, Childhood's End, The Redneck Manifesto, Pride and Prejudice, Daniel Clowes, The Aubrey/Maturin series, Ways of Seeing, Dykes to Watch Out For, Robert E. Howard, bell hooks, George R.R. Martin, (not just A Song of Ice and Fire,) H.P. Lovecraft, Lynda Barry, Dave Barry, Patrick Califia, Nabokov, Brian Daley's "Han Solo" novels, The Left Hand of Darkness, Killing for Culture: An Illustrated History of Death Film from Mondo to Snuff, A Confederacy of Dunces

Currently Reading: The Deed of Pakesnarrion and My Gun is Quick

TV: Star Trek (TOS,TNG,DS9) Mad Men, Magnum PI, Homicide: Life on the Streets, The Prisoner, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Space Ghost: Coast to Coast, Mystery Science Theater 3000, Edge of Darkness, Firefly, Buffy, Roseanne, Archer, Gilmore Girls

Movies: Alien, Aliens, The Seven Samurai, Combat Shock, Blade Runner, Conan the Barbarian, Pacific Rim, Rumble in the Bronx, Casino, Heat, Star Wars, Star Trek 2: Wrath of Khan, Forbidden Zone, Dead Alive, Tetsuo the Iron Man, Evil Dead, Night of the Hunter, Casablanca, Jackie Brown, They Live, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, Godzilla: King of the Monsters, The Piano, Videodrome, Repo Man, Phantasm, Trancers, The Killer, American Movie, Southland Tales, Groundhog Day, Zombi 2, Phenomena (the one with Jennifer Connelly controlling insects with her mind, not John Travalota,) Eraserhead, Ghostbusters, The Big Lebowski, Chinese Ghost Story, Heroic Trio

Music: The Pixies, Manowar, Cannibal Corpse, Shonen Knife, Adelle, Tori Amos, Big Black, Joy Division, Sabaton, AxCx, Angry Samoans, older ska, Chinese opera, older hip hop and rap, Willie Nelson's "Red Headed Stranger", punk

Food: Barbeque, Italian, Chinese, Thai, meat and potatoes. I really enjoy cooking and don't challenge myself enough.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends 2. New and interesting movies 3. The natural environment 4. My freedom of movement 5. Cats 6. Buffalo wings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Freedom and responsibility. Delicious food, like cheeseburgers and ribs. Class issues. The importance of friends. Sex. Self-improvement and being happier. Spaceships. Gender and how we perform it and what it means. Wondering if I've wasted my life. Feminism. The problems of the application of privilege theory. How to fully assimilate my values into my thinking and reacting. The future. My cats. Corny jokes. Wanting to know how in the fuck I scored "Technopagan" on that stereotype test.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking a beer and either reading or watching something, playing a game, or futzing around online. Maybe going out. Pretty good chance I'm eating cheap buffalo wings.
You should message me if
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You like Italian horror films and Chinese action movies. Or movies in general. You enjoy the idea of a night being drunken conversation debate and story-telling, and a night in watching a movie and sharing funny/stoopid stuff from the internet. You have tales of woe to share.

You want to make food/be made food/get something to eat.