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36 Tucson, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:50pm
White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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What do you say about yourself when you don't exactly know what makes you tick?

I'm an easterner still unsure, after ten years, how to deal with all this sunshine. I used to call myself a geek, but have gotten less enchanted with labels, although I suppose it might be true.

I've been in long term relationships for the bulk of my adult life. For the first time in a really long time I'm not thinking of myself as part of a couple, and it's...different. I'm not looking for anything resembling a long term relationship. Someday probably, but not now. Just dating, being physically affectionate and other related things.

I drive for a living now, but I'm also attending school to become a paralegal.

Friends of any kind are super important to me. I need them and need to be needed by them. Talking and processing our lives, as well as just enjoying each others company is probably my most important value. I sometimes get anxious about people, that I'm not meeting their needs, or being too needy, and have isolated myself because of that sometimes, but I'm never happier for it.

I enjoy watching movies good, cult, and bad, some TV, reading, playing board and other tabletop games, going out (or in) for eating or drinks, camping, good conversation, and road trips, all in no particular order.

I spend a lot of my time thinking. My job gives me a lot of time to spend in my head. Ideas are important to me, and while some may find it annoying or uninteresting, I analyze things that interest me very heavily, and need to discuss them. I generally find that the more I discover about something, the more interesting it becomes, and the more I need to talk about it, even if the discussion goes nowhere. (This doesn't mean I can't turn off my brain sometimes, but even idle diversions can be examined.) Basically, I find it difficult to get along with people who can't hold conversations and discussions.

I am contradicting myself, large, and I contain multitudes
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working as a cab driver, in school to no longer be a cab driver, trying this whole goal setting ambition thing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to people I care about, being a friend and companion, getting anxious about social situations, conversation, sharing emotions and secrets, cooking a steak, faking being a polymath, driving. Sex? Maybe? No one tells you to your face your a bad lay. (Well, most people, I imagine.)

Also, starting exercise and running plans, doing that for a while, then falling off the wagon. If you're good at that too, maybe we can help each other get worse at failing. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
No idea. I have a difficult time conceiving of other people's concepts of me. My physical presence, I've been told. I'm 6', 240 lbs, so not for nothing I'm a bigger guy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books & Authors: The Bell Jar, Childhood's End, The Redneck Manifesto, Pride and Prejudice, Daniel Clowes, The Aubrey/Maturin series, Ways of Seeing, Dykes to Watch Out For, Robert E. Howard, bell hooks, George R.R. Martin, (not just A Song of Ice and Fire,) H.P. Lovecraft, Lynda Barry, Dave Barry, Nabokov, Brian Daley's "Han Solo" novels, Redneck Manifesto by Jim Goad

Currently Reading: The Secret History of Star Wars and Comrade Chiang Ch'ing

TV: Star Trek (TOS,TNG,DS9) Mad Men, Magnum PI, Homicide: Life on the Streets, The Prisoner, Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Space Ghost: Coast to Coast, Mystery Science Theater 3000 (& Rifftrax), Edge of Darkness, Firefly, Buffy, Roseanne, Archer

Movies: Alien, Aliens, The Seven Samurai, Combat Shock, Blade Runner, Conan the Barbarian, Pacific Rim, Casino, Heat, Star Wars, Star Trek 2: Wrath of Khan, Forbidden Zone, Dead Alive, Tetsuo the Iron Man, Evil Dead, Night of the Hunter, Casablanca, Jackie Brown, Tinker Tailor Soldier Spy, Godzilla: King of the Monsters, The Piano, Videodrome, Repo Man

Music: The Pixies, Manowar, Cannibal Corpse, Shonen Knife, Adelle, Tori Amos, Big Black, Joy Division, Sabaton, AxCx, Angry Samoans, older ska, Chinese opera, older hip hop and rap, "Red Headed Stranger", punk

Food: Barbeque, Italian, Chinese, Thai, meat and potatoes. I really enjoy cooking and don't challenge myself enough.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends 2. Jaundice treatment circa 1979 3. The natural environment 4. My freedom of movement 5. Cats 6. Buffalo wings
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Freedom and responsibility. The importance of friends. Self-reliance. How to fully assimilate my values into my thinking and reacting. The future. My cats. Corny jokes. Wanting to know how in the world I scored "Technopagan" on that stereotype test.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out around the house, wanting to go out, but too shy/nervous.
You should message me if
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You want something to eat? I love cooking and going out.

You want a friend, or to go on some dates, someone to go driving, play a game, go for a walk, do other activities with, or just hang out and talk to.

I list casual sex, because I like having sex with people I like, but not in an exclusive relationship with, but I'm not particularly interested in hook-ups, and it is not a prerequisite for a relationship or friendship.