I have spent the last few years devoted to knowing who I am and finding my happiness. I love to learn matters of the heart. It excites me to know we can be rich in our appreciation for each other and change the patterns that no longer serve us.
How do you nourish your partner? YourSelf? How would you like your partner to nourish you? What would make it safe for you to ask a woman out?
Everyone likes to be heard. How are your listening skills? Are you open to sharing your feelings? Do you feel this is a strength or a weakness? Do you want an intimate connection? Vulnerability leads to intimacy.
My Ideal Partner: One who loves unconditionally and accepts me just as I am.
Please check in with yourSelf to see if you are looking to someone else to make you happy. If that's the case, I am not the person you are looking for.
I have 3 amazing grown children who have chosen wonderful partners in life. They have been my teachers and they inspire me. They are loving and supportive. I'm also blessed with 2 darling little grandchildren. (I'm up-dating this as my daughter's marriage brought me 3 more little ones when she married her beautiful husband.) Lucky me!
I enjoy cardio workouts, yoga, eating healthy, nourishing foods, walking on the beach, 'playing' with my friends, listening to great music: Van Morrison, Beatles, Jack Johnson, piano jazz, going to plays, theater, having massages, getting into a hot tub, etc.
I love watching soccer matches, viewing and creating art and being in nature feels so natural and healing for me. A beautiful walk in the woods with a picnic, laying in the sun, snuggling and listening to the silence is perfect! It feels good just stating this.
My ideal partner is one who is also physically fit, confident and likes to hold hands, hold me in warm embraces and snuggle. I'm financially secure and have high integrity and expect/want the same in my partner. I'm very honest and value that quality in everyone.
I met a nice man who belongs to a Men's group called ManKind. Have you heard of it? Wow. Impressive group! I was excited to know there was a group for men like this. Women have many groups, but it's one of the first I've heard of for men.
If you're interested in getting to know the mystery between how men and women are so different, I'm listening to a CD by Allison Armstrong called: UNDERSTANDING WOMEN, Unlock the Mystery. She has many 'tutorials' that are fun and very interesting. It's really helping to understand the differences for me. Men in her audience are fascinated as well. Check it out. I'm also checking out her 'understanding men' section.
I have a monthly service project in Santa Monica and love my drive on the PCH.
(Please view the photo you posted. It would be nice to see a close-up of your beautiful face and into your heart to connect that way. Many photos are dark or too far away and it's challenging to view. I do not respond to a blank space where your photo might be. And a question for those who don't have much written in your bio...WHY? How can I get to know you without any input?)
I've taken a few tests here and skipped the sexual questions. That is not an open discussion for the public to view. My partner and I will discuss them. I am very comfortable in my sexuality.
When answering the TEST questions, most are irrelevant as it's not up to me to decide what's appropriate for another. It will not tell me of your character one way or another. It will only depend on what types of activities we enjoy together to see if we're compatible. Most of these were a 'SKIP' for me.
On a more 'logical note', I've heard it's wise to ask about credit scores before diving too far into a relationship. How does that fit for you if we discussed this? I know many relationships get into danger when it's not aligned. It's an important subject. Are you open to 'going there?' Is it a safe discussion to talk about? I'm ok with it. Ask anything. I'm pretty open and vulnerable about most things.
I am blissfilled, generous, and loving! Tell me something you love about yourSelf.