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64 Santa Barbara, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 54–70
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:01am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
You know what's sexy? A real conversation.
I love my life and I LOVE vulnerable, open-hearted communications! I think it's everything. I'm a very JOYFUL, happy and physically active woman who loves to laugh and share my joy. (Being funny should not be offensive or uncomfortable for anyone.) My love language is kindness and compassion. I'm attracted to a man who has these qualities.

I have spent the last few years devoted to knowing who I am and finding my happiness. I love to learn matters of the heart. It excites me to know we can be rich in our appreciation for each other and change the patterns that no longer serve us.

How do you nourish your partner? YourSelf? How would you like your partner to nourish you? What would make it safe for you to ask a woman out?

Everyone likes to be heard. How are your listening skills? Are you open to sharing your feelings? Do you feel this is a strength or a weakness? Do you want an intimate connection? Vulnerability leads to intimacy.
My Ideal Partner: One who loves unconditionally and accepts me just as I am.

Please check in with yourSelf to see if you are looking to someone else to make you happy. If that's the case, I am not the person you are looking for.
“Do you want to meet the love of your life? 
Look in the mirror.” Byron Katie

I have 3 amazing grown children who have chosen wonderful partners in life. They have been my teachers and they inspire me. They are loving and supportive. I'm also blessed with 2 darling little grandchildren. (I'm up-dating this as my daughter's marriage brought me 3 more little ones when she married her beautiful husband in October--some of these photos are from their wedding.) Lucky me!

I enjoy cardio workouts, yoga, eating healthy, nourishing foods, walking on the beach, 'playing' with my friends, listening to great music: Van Morrison, Beatles, Jack Johnson, piano jazz, going to plays, theater, having massages, getting into a hot tub, etc.

I love watching soccer matches (yay World Cup was here! I'm going to miss it.), viewing and creating art and being in nature feels so natural and healing for me. A beautiful walk in the woods with a picnic, laying in the sun, snuggling and listening to the silence is perfect! It feels good just stating this.

My ideal partner is one who is also physically fit, confident and likes to hold hands, hold me in warm embraces and snuggle. I'm financially secure and have high integrity and expect/want the same in my partner. I'm very honest and value that quality in my partner. I appreciate the 'likes' but would rather hear how you think we connect via email. What are our common interests in your opinion?

I have had a monthly service project in Santa Monica and love my drive on the PCH.

(Please view the photo you posted. It would be nice to see a close-up of your beautiful face and into your heart to connect that way. Many photos are dark or too far away and it's challenging to view. I do not respond to a blank space where your photo might be. And a question for those who don't have much written in your bio...WHY? How can I get to know you without any input?)
I just realized how OFF these 'matches' are as they put me highly matched with a sarcastic man. Not!
I've taken a few tests here and skipped the sexual questions. That is not an open discussion for the public to view. My partner and I will discuss them. I am very comfortable in my sexuality.
When answering the TEST questions, most are irrelevant as it's not up to me to decide what's appropriate for another. It will not tell me of your character one way or another. It will only depend on what types of activities we enjoy together to see if we're compatible. Most of these were a 'SKIP' for me.

I am blissfilled, Irish, generous, and loving! Tell me something you love about yourSelf.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I appreciate learning and growing in mySelf, photography, wine tasting, golf, jazz, theater, traveling around the world (and close-by), hiking in the mountains, lakes and hills, and pretty much anything outdoors.

I've been to Europe a few times and intend on returning. Ireland and Italy are next on my list. (Bali made the list this year. What a beautiful land with amazing, grateful people!) Ireland has the nicest and friendliest folks with beautiful landscapes, and Italy is most amazing in it's scenery and food! And Hawaii is a no brainier...always love visiting there.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Trusting and loving unconditionally.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a good listener, so I'm quiet at first. Then what they notice is my smile and friendly personality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Favorite authors: LOTS!

Eckhart Tolle. (If you connect with A NEW EARTH, we'll likely connect. I also loved LOVEABILITY by Robert Holden and everything by Harville Hendrix. Getting the Love You Want comes to mind)

I graduated from a Master's program in Consciousness Health and Healing after a two year Spiritual Psychology program. (not religious)

TED talks are inspiring and innovative!

I love plays, movies (not violent) ones that make me laugh and fun movies. Have some you can recommend?

Food: healthy, nourishing (i.e. fresh fish, etc.) Not much into Indian food or heavy foods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
loving: my children, grandbabies and friends; Spirituality; appreciation; gratitude; my health.
If you email me, please let me know if you resonate with letting go of patterns that don't work for you. Do you do the work to get free? This is a very important part of my present and my future.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I appreciate my life. How to release judgments... and loving unconditionally.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
entertained with a movie, play, speaker, party or sitting quietly and peacefully at home listening to 'quiet' music and / or watching a recorded show or cooking with my that you?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am authentic. I have no secrets...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are gentle, romantic, loving; confident, open to looking within to find your own happiness and not looking for it outside of yourself, and are willing to heal unresolved issues. Above all someone who is into living your best life!
I do not enjoy talking politics or strong, rough personalities or men who tend to be loud or ego led.
(Unfortunately, I'm highly allergic to cats. It's down to them or me. I choose to breathe).