I am not your normal girl, far from it. I am quirky, a little nerdy, at times pretty darn silly, a tad empathic and i live a life in the world of BDSM. I am a submissive and am very involved in the local BDSM community, this is something that is very important to me because i believe that surrounding oneself with like-minded people reinforces the foundation of trust, honor and openness that this life requires. I have come to learn that my life must be lived in a power exchange, a life of structure and protocol. Though living in a power exchange defines your station in the relationship, i still believe that love, happiness and a well-rounded life work, and in reality thrive, in this dynamic. This is my dream, but making dreams into reality take time so i am in no hurry. This is my life and i am serious about it, so i know this is not found over night. i seek a strict and firm hand over me. This is how i operate best. i love to have fun and believe that having fun is at the core of this lifestyle. It's understood that not every moment be a fun one, but the point is that it has to make you and Yours happy for it to work. To those who know what this means outside the bedroom, I welcome you.

i have been in this lifestyle for 8 ½ years and it has become a core part of who i am. Not everyone lives as openly as I do, and this is something I understand, I simply believe in being my true self. i am a young, vibrant, and very sexually open woman. i am a deep submissive and believe that being a person of service is a great asset, to myself and to those around me. i really love having the control over my life; it grounds me and centers me. This is my life, i am discreet and respectful of other people but i do not hide my life. There are a great many friends in my life that not only know about me, but are kinky too. i think that is a wonderful and beautiful thing. If you email to inquire about me, please be serious about this lifestyle as this is who i am, so please be respectful of that fact.

i like to think that i am fun to be around, have a good sense of humor and like to have people around me who are the same. i like to find smart and funny people who are able to hold a conversation, though a little sarcasm doesn't hurt either. i am not hung up on looks but there does have to be an attraction. i do like a bit of variety and have experienced quite a bit, but i am always up for a more exploring and pushing limits to keep things fun and challenging.

i am looking for someone who is not only passionate but also have a passion in life and most importantly have a solid understanding of what respect is. i am turned on by humility, and intelligent conversation, after all the best sex is made in the mind. i do not, however, identify as poly, so i do not seek any form of relationship that includes it, even though i am sexually open when in a relationship with my one. i do also wish to have a family when i find the right person, which is why i prefer to find connections with people 45 and under, they tend to be in the same place in life as myself.

My other passion in life is food. I have a culinary degree, and my interests lie in the areas of food culture, sustainability, food knowledge. Basically, the stories surrounding food, how influences our lives, and how we influence it. I do love to cook for the people in my life and in certain situations for an income. Being adventurous with food is definitely a big plus in my book.

Thank you for taking the time to read about me, if you find that our lives might follow a similar path, I look forward to talking with you.