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  • Ages 25-35
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
My self-summary
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I've lived in England, Hungary, Japan and a handful of US states. Been in Boston for several years now. Not much for image management. I'd rather look silly having fun than look cool being bored. People tell me I march to the beat of a different drummer, etc., which is something I never really set out to do, as I am certainly not the confrontational outlaw rebel. (In fact, I usually find those people reeeally boring at their core.) I mostly like feeling like I'm connecting with people rather than playing at human interaction like it's a game to determine social standing. Also, I'm crazy about stories... from the Epic of Gilgamesh onwards to the modern TV serial.
What I’m doing with my life
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Been working in a typical office job for a few years (textbook publishing) and let the corporate mindset creep in a little too much. Trying now to jumpstart my creative projects which is where my real passion lies. I have finished the first draft of a first novel. I am trying to edit now. Yikes!

I have recently joined a gym. I have absolutely no idea what Im doing but I'm doing it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making conversation that will be remembered at the end of the day. (But it takes a willing conversational partner to go on these flights of fancy.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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The lively and goofy sense of humor. Unless they first meet me in a library or something because you're kind of supposed to be quiet there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enjoy serialized cable dramas like Breaking Bad, Homeland, and Game of Thrones. My favorite comedies are usually too clever their own good and get canceled after a couple seasons, e.g. Arrested Development, Community. I'm amazed How I Met Your Mother escaped this curse. Also, I love Adventure Time. I can't imagine not loving it. In general I still love animation in my 30s and will never stop.

Movies is too big a topic to really dig into here so I'll just say favorite directors include the Coen brothers, Jim Jarmusch, Quentin Tarantino, Joss Whedon, and Jeanne-Pierre Jeunet.

For reading I prefer all sorts of genre stuff (but hopefully with a brain.) I particularly enjoy Phillip K Dick and Terry Pratchett.

Musical taste runs towards critics' darlings of all genres. All time favorites include Nick Cave, The Clash, and The Cure. (And I love dancing to cheeseball 80s music.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Interesting ideas.
Working with my hands.
Movie night get togethers.
Pond walks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Big picture, daydream type questions. When I was four and didn't really know what a brain was how did I already think of my mind (or "me") as being located in my head? (I think it's because that's where all the visual and auditory input is received.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinks with friends, catch a play, or see a show at my local rock club. If I'm at home I'm probably mainlining narrative in some form or other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Sometimes I daydream about destroying the moon.
You should message me if
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I dunno, figure it out. The stakes are pretty low at this point, so talk to a stranger; it might be fun.