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I’m 50, black, 5'9'' 170lbs, mostly a homebody and am seeking
someone to not just be friends with but also to eventually become
I like reading science fiction and military fiction...love watching
movies (especially cuddling with a special someone)/hobbies - I
play chess a little, am trying to learn to play poker, a few
computer and X box 360 rpg games, listen to mostly 70's and 80's
music (I just don’t really like the modern hip-hop /rap thing. I
love beautiful music, some acoustic guitar, lyrics that have
meaning and feeling.
I just tend to be very passionate about the person I'm with. I
don't try to change who they are or change who I am (unless it's
for the betterment of me as a person, not just as a partner to fit
their needs) Just trying to find someone who shares the same
passion about things, and who's life will mesh with mine. I believe
there’s nothing wrong in feeling more alive because someone is my
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm in the process of changeing from who I was into someone a bit
more ME.I was a father...supposed partner,but due to alot of
compromising, forgor or at least gotten out of being who ever I
am.I not only intend to change that, but am seeking a new,true
partner for this road I'm to travel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not really a maker...more an appreciator.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My Favorite Year
You’ve Got Mail(and it’s original The Shop Around the Corner)
The Princess Bride
Cyrano de Bergerac(the Jose Ferrer and Steve Martin Versions
A Star Is Born(with Barbra Streisand and Kris Kristfferson)
Love Story(exspecally the Theme from Love Story by Francis
The Six String Samurai
Pink Floyd / Jean Michelle Jarre
Elton John / Eryaka Badu
Heart / Dire Straights
Mike Oldfield / Cruxshadow
Supertramp / Jean Luc Ponty
And more recently:
Blank and Jones / Alan Parsons
Gorillaz / DJ Earworm
Ronald Jenkees / Pretty Lights
Eminem / The Red Elvises
Nuttin but Strings and Little People
Fav Books or rather Authors
Issac Asimov / Lois McMaster Boujold / Gorden Dickson /David Drake
/ Eric Flint / Robert Heinlein / Mercedes Lackey / L.E. Modesitt /
Elizabeth Moon / Terry Pratchett / John Ringo /
and John Scalzi
The Foundation Seeries / The Vorkosigan Series / The Dorsai Stories
/ Hammers Slammers / The Ring of Fire Series / Paladin of Shadows
Series - Into the Looking gLASS - The Alderata Books - Special
Circumstance - Troy Rising
After Earth / Red Shirts / 1635 / World War Z
Fav Foods: Oriental / Italian / Seafood 'specally
shrimp and mussles
Mushrooms(just regular sliced ones)
Grape Soda, ALL Choclate's, Tea(more so
than coffee,tho it also,)Peppermint and
Cinnamond, Hot Chips, STEAK!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The Beauty of Women
the Warmth of Smiles and the Softness of Hug's
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Believing in love...in being in love? Have you ever? What makes one
feel cherished, pursued, and known?
Please tell me that there are women out there who actually WANT to
be treated like they are the only thing that matters in a guy's
world? Women who want guys to be there for them 100%, whenever they
need it. Woman who want a trustworthy guy who feels lucky to be
with them and sees nothing else when they see them across the room.
I know a lot of this might sound over the top or clingy, but I
assure you I don't mean to be clingy.
I'm just getting discouraged about how hard it is to find a good
woman who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them.
It's getting hard to give so much without getting much in return,
sometimes it makes me feel like I have nothing left.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wishing I was cuddled with someone
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I dislike people as a group
but I need at least one
to share all that I am and to
be a part of.
You should message me if
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If you could made a promise, and truly did abide
If I could trust you with my heart, and you never lie
If you'd accept a flower, just because I cared
If you listened to my feelings, not make fun because I shared
If you could become my favorite flower?
If I give you a say, and truly shared the power
If I wrote you a poem, and you can tell me how it makes you
If you showed me everyday, so what I wrote ,for you too ,is
If we can kiss with passion, out for all to see
If you seek to tell someone, I love you, and meant it
If you'd hold me close, never wanting to let go
If you would touch me,missing me, just to let me know
If you'd nursed me back to health, when I feeling ill
If you'd claim my heart, after all the tears I've spilled
If you could look in my eyes, and think maybe I'm the one
If you picked up my pieces, when I come undone
If you listened to all my words, let the untrue ones slide
If you'd believe that I do, truly, do try
If you'd do all these things, and offered a heart that's true
Would you go out with me, if I wanted you to?
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