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41 M Evanston, IL

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Today – 5:23pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Ziggy Marley is coming to town at the end of June...should I buy one or two tickets? If you are interested in accompany me...good food, great company, awesome music...let me know. Let's meet soon, hopefully click, and have something positive to look forward to.[

“If she’s amazing, she won’t be easy. If she’s easy, she won’t be amazing. If she’s worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you’re not worthy. … Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” - Bob Marley

Dependable, ambitious, calm, methodical, born leader, patient, hardworking, conventional, steady, modest, logical, resolute, tenacious.

Hang out, Long-term, Dating, Friends, Intimate Encounters, whatever it is, I only want one woman.

I am totally single, heterosexual, working on trimming down, (my body type should be specifically "fat-bastard", instead of just generic overweight), very clean, D&D free, live alone in Evanston. Open to race and age.

Music, movies, arts, skydiving, zip-lining, whatever it is, plus great company. No expectations, just bring your sense of humor.

Feel free to pass me by if not having car is a factor for you. Does not stop me from getting where or to whom I feel is worth the journey. I have dated true long distance, as in other states, country. So those who limit themselves to just the borders of the is all on are your own limitation to finding someone. I am worth the journey, so you should be too. Positive vibes to all.

"What the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others." -Confucius
What I’m doing with my life
Gathering positive dots...then connect them. The dots represent good moments collected during a lifetime.

The next dot on my mind is the Chicago Summer Dance series. Now...who is brave enough to venture out of their comfort zone and join me?
I’m really good at
Being a bad influence on
The first things people usually notice about me
Women say my eyes. I have looked in the mirror...and still don't get I guess I am not supposed to. Some also say my lips ;)

I am not typical. I like that! Thank you to those who notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Check out some of my music favs:
Natiruts from Brazil
Los Amiogos Invisbles from Argentina
Kora from New Zealand
O Rappa from Brazil
Black Seeds from New Zealand
Fela Kuti from Nigeria
Sharon Jones & The Dap Kings from Brooklyn, NY US
José González from Sweden
Apocalyptica from Finland
Fat Freddy's Drop from New Zealand
Nujabes (Jun Seba) from Japan

I enjoy all types of movies...from the independent to the big budget...even "chick-flicks".

Eclectic when it comes to music...from Metallica to Yo Yo Ma.

Books...what are those? lol. Trying to find the time to read the "Silmarillion" it!

Some of my favorite Britcoms:
Fawlty Towers
Are You Being Served?
Mr Bean
The Thin Blue Line
As Time Goes By
My Family
Keeping Up Appearances
The Vicar of Dibley
Absolutely Fabulous
The Old Guys
The Catherine Tate Show
Black Books
Father Ted
The IT Crowd
Come Fly With Me
Little Britain
The six things I could never do without
1. Music
2. Familia (not just blood related)
3. Passport
4. Humor
5. Chocolate!!
6. Live Music!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
“If your dreams do not scare you, they are not big enough.”
― Ellen Johnson Sirleaf

Perfection isn't the goal -- happiness is.
I’m looking for
  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 30–70
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you understand:

The Charles Schultz Philosophy

You don't have to actually answer the questions. Just ponder on them.

1. Name the five wealthiest people in the world.
2. Name the last five Heisman trophy winners.
3. Name the last five winners of the Miss America pageant.
4. Name ten people who have won the Nobel or Pulitzer Prize.
5. Name the last half dozen Academy Award winners for best actor and actress.
6. Name the last decade's worth of World Series Winners.

How did you do?

The point is, none of us remember the headliners of yesterday. These are no second-rate achievers. They are the best in their fields. But the applause dies. Awards tarnish. Achievements are forgotten. Accolades and certificates are buried with their owners.

Here's another quiz. See how you do on this one:
1. List a few teachers who aided your journey through school.
2. Name three friends who have helped you through a difficult time.
3. Name five people who have taught you something worthwhile.
4. Think of a few people who have made you feel appreciated and special!!
5. Think of five people you enjoy spending time with.


The lesson:
The people who make a difference in your life are not the ones with the most credentials, the most money, or the most awards. They simply are the ones who care the most.