What I'm looking for? First and foremost, someone who can make me laugh. Sense of humor is very important. I'm pretty sarcastic, so I prefer someone who can dish it out as well as they can take it. There's an acceptable ratio of gentleman:jerk.. :) "someone who will open the door for me, but slap my ass as I walk by" ;) Someone who appreciates the value of family, friends, and having a solid foundation of friendship...but can still share a laugh with me when we make fools of ourselves.... "because that's what left after 46 years of marriage...the laughter" - my grandmother and grandfather, who were together months shy of 50 years.
My match is educated (as am I), and someone who can uphold interesting conversation. I nerd out from time to time, as I would expect him to; everyone has their own eccentricities. He is genuinely looking for a relationship, and knows it should come easy, but there should still be passion with every kiss. I won't focus on appearances because attraction comes in all shapes and sizes and we'll know if there is a spark.
That said, I am an old fashioned type of girl. I don't kiss on the first date, I believe in the glass half full, and I believe in 'happy wife happy life'. But in order to be treated like a queen, I have to find my King. If this doesn't sound like something you're interested in, then please feel free to move on and keep browsing :)