I would prefer to spend time with happy and positive people.
I'm not interested in meaningless sex with a bunch of random people. I'm also not interested in dating men who still live with their mothers, or men who think that being pushy is charming.
So I'm just a girl, who likes girly stuff. And not so girly stuff. But don't mistake me for average!
I was married for 15 years and monogamous until the last 4 of those. But I never cheated on my husband because we were either swinging together or else dating others with consent during that period. We have recently separated though. Right now I am spending most of my time and energy dealing with this separation and monitoring the impact it is having on my children.
I've debated about whether to add this or not, but have decided that if you somehow find this off-putting, we just aren't meant to be. I've been getting a lot of "let's meet up today" messages from guys who are so insistent on meeting up, that they can't even be bothered to ask me my name. Case in point:
Guy: We should meet up!:)
Me: I am curious about what your reasons for thinking this would be.
Guy: Because we are both ridiculously good looking :)
That's debatable IMHO, but whatever.
I guess I didn't answer quickly enough because he then disabled his profile. But my point is, if you're not interested in getting to know me, then I'm just not interested. I know chatting here can be a little slow, but I don't share my personal contact info quickly. I've had some bad experiences with that so please respect this.