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blu_ayes

49 / M / straight / Single

San Dimas, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am confident, kind, and smart.

My Self-Summary

I joined this site after hearing about it from another person who said they liked taking the tests, so I decided to join and take the tests myself. Seriously. That's the reason. If I am fortunate enough to meet a great woman, start a friendship off of the Internet, then I count that as a plus. But I'm not so desperate as to put my life on hold and spend all day on this site. I've wasted too much time taking too many addictive tests! And those profile questions, they are endless!

About me: I play racquetball, go jogging and work out 2-3 times a week. I try and eat six times a day, ala the Abs Diet. (Yes, I read the whole book).

What I’m doing with my life

Working on completion of my Bachelor's degree, and raising my two sons.

I’m really good at

All things related to computers and technology, including the Internet. I can spell and use grammar properly and in context. Being a father. Being a dependable friend.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes. Not being vain, that's what I hear most often.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Four Agreements, Way of the Peaceful Warrior, Mozart's Brain and The Fighter Pilot, The Revolution, A Manifesto.

The Great Escape, The Matrix Trilogy, The Bourne series, Da Vinci Code, Saving Private Ryan, And We Were Soldiers, Sean Connery as James Bond, The Saint, Ronin, Office Space, Pink Panther movies (with Peter Sellers), Kill Bill, plus all the other Quentin Tarantino films.

Genres - It varies, mainly - Rock, Alternative, Metal. Groups - Metallica, U2, The Who, AC/DC, The Doors, Triumph, Scorpions, Pink, Jim Croce, Evanescence, Berlin, Judas Priest, Nickelback, Michael Buble, Frank Sinatra, Pat Benatar, The Eagles, The Cure, Elton John, Neil Diamond, Johnny Cash, Roy Orbison, many, many more.

Food Basics - American, Italian, Mexican, Chinese, all BBQ. Not into sushi, Japanese or Thai. Avoid fast food, except Chipotle and In-n-Out. I also really enjoy fruit smoothies and fruit & protein shakes. Oh, by the way, if any of you ladies ever finds a great brisket of beef sandwich with chunky brown gravy, and crisp dill pickle, let me know about it! We'll have to meet for lunch there (except those vegetarians out there, we can meet after I eat)!

The six things I could never do without

A second revision of my original six **

1. Other humans (I find that I overwhelmingly prefer the female type though family & friends are included here too)
2. Humor (makes up for the lack of other things)
3. Exercise
4. Ability to reason / Think critically
5. Ipod (filled with songs, and an eternally charged battery)
6. Ability to communicate / interact

(**In no particular order and air to breathe, food & water is presumed to be available).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Lessons I've learned, things I still want to learn, and people I hope to meet.

And sometimes I think about:

Considering: The Maid of Honor (DGLM) or The Sonnet (DGLD)

Always Avoiding: The Battleaxe (DBLM)

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing something typical. Or I'm typically busy, or foot loose and fancy free. How the heck should I know, really? Nothing is typical with me!

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

is nothing, because it would no longer be private, now would it?

You should message me if

You are interested in getting to know me better than you do after looking at my picture, reading my bio, and reviewing the tests I've taken to see if you are at all compatible. I've purposely avoided giving many details on this site, figuring that if you're interested (and I didn't contact you first) that you'll have that many more questions to ask me...so message me!