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36 • Los Angeles, CA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 29–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Aug 14, 2013
- 5′ 8″ (1.73m)
- Body type
- A little extra
- Graduated from university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs
- English (Fluently), Korean (Fluently)
Well travelled, supporter of arts in vast mediums, part smartass with a healthy dose of sarcasm balanced with a generous heart and loyalty for those important to me. I value family & close circle of friends and humbly appreciate where life has brought me so far. I believe life isnt so much about finding yourself, but creating yourself. Accepting imperfections and embracing it to see that although all too often the grass seems greener on the other side, if you took the time to water your own grass, it would be just as green.
I Fit the typical Gemini traits: always thinking and multi tasking, prone to get bored easily, thus constantly seeking new challenges to keep busy and be inspired.
Grew up in Hawaii, been living in LA for 17 years. A bit skeptical about online dating as it really can't be taken too seriousely with having met enough people who misinterpret or project themselves to something they are not. I value genuine, authentic people, to evolve to frienship or beyond, without the bs and unnecessary drama.
Not searching for a soulmate on here. It would be nice to click with genuine prople who are open to explore and take spontaneous chances in life. More of a realist, perhaps one might mistaken me for a commitment phobic spinster (ha!) but it really just means I have yet to find a connection that gives me butterflies in my stomach and makes my knees weak sort of relationship.
I want companionship, to find someone to fall for but doesnt necessarily mean I want to leap to walking down the isle. I enjoy having my own life and don't believe in fairy tale romance. Sharing similar interests, great conversations and debates to feel you can speak your mind and freedom to be opinionated without being judged...making good company and sharing what inspired us and makes moments worthwhile...is that so hard to find?
I am not overly aggressive, but I consider myself to be assertive and somewhat neurotic and can't stop when I am engrossed in something, I get in my 'zone' and I am all about it you are gonna do something, give it all you got. I loathe half ass anything. Somewhat of a perfectionist but realizing we need to embrace our imperfections and realize the grass only looks greener on the other side.
I enjoy movies tremendously. Often you'll find me at indie movie screenings, attending film festivals- or on almost every other weekend, at the Arclight catching a flick. Genres range from suspense to intelligently written brain teasers, documentaries, occassionally will sit through predictible romance comedies, as well as feel good action films. But more interested on independent films, supporting the underdogs over exploited mega blockbusters.
I enjoy all music- except country. I enjoy the pop charts, R&B, but also love house music, and lounge music compilations.
When it comes to food, I drive all over to find great food, whether it is outstanding sushi, dim sum, or novelty hot dogs, spicy thai dishes...experiment! love great brunch menus...I am a foodie.
a pair of killer heels (yep I am a shoe-holic)
family & friends
My interpretation of spontaneity does not equal to being wrecklessly promiscuous.
1. Having casual sexual relations frequently with different partners; indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners.
2. Lacking standards of selection; indiscriminate.
3. Casual; random.
4. Consisting of diverse, unrelated parts or individuals; confused.
Don't bother knocking my door for random "hook ups". And really, copy and paste lame messages are really getting annoying.
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