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45 M Olympia, WA

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  • Ages 28–50
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I have lived in Washington for most of my life except for short stints in California, Maine and Denmark. Within the last few years I have found my career path in education and really enjoy it.

I am an open minded, patient, and respectful guy. I enjoy light banter but also talking metaphysics, film, books, art. I have a quirky, dry and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor. I like getting my perspectives challenged or at least opened to other ideas (why I appreciate art).

Turn- On’s: Someone who has a healthy curiosity about life, likes to take it easy but also get out and be active. I would like to find someone who is good listener, compassionate, patient, open minded who has a sense of fashion and sense of humor.

I enjoy: travel, tiki mugs, finding tiki bars, interesting architecture, good/interesting food and cooking, mindfulness-meditation, art and art museums, commercial archeology, kustom culture, I tend to enjoy retro styling’s over modern in clothing and décor, swing dancing, playing music, seeing bands, hiking/nature, playing with my dog. I want to get into photography, learn Spanish, and maybe host my own music show on the local community radio station.
What I’m doing with my life
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Other than work, I play bass(upright and electric) and guitar and I play in at least one band; sometimes two. I enjoy getting out in nature and travel. I especially want to explore the Southwest and Central and South America, S.E. Asia and India. I like staying fit and healthy: I work out/jog but am not obsessive about it and I am into meditation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Ridin' with no hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Too many books to's a few: The Stranger, On the Road, Dharma Bums, Generation X: Tales from an Accelerated Culture, Iron John, One Flew Over the Cookoo's Nest, Shadows of the Wind, Sex at Dawn, Night, Zen Mind Beginners Mind, When things Fall Apart, Guns-Germs and Steel, Open to Desire, Mating in Captivity, James Ellroy, Raymond Carver, Annie Proulx(sp?), Paul Thoureax, Michael Meade, Hunter S. Thompson, Mary Oliver and Billy Collins poems....and many, many more.

Movies: independent film, film noir, B-movies("something weird" vids rock!),Slacker, Flirting with Disaster, Something About Mary, Y Tu Mama Tambien, Glenn Gary Glenn Ross, Endless sunshine, Being John Malkavich, A Perfect Storm, Blue Velvet, Repo Man, The Big Lebowski, Lonestar, Blade Runner, Sideways, No Country for Old Men, American Movie, Harold and Maude, Seven Samurai, Tampoppo, and on and on and on...

TV: Curb your Enthusiasm, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Louis CK, Homeland

Starting to enjoy plays! Especially up in Seattle.

Music: I am a music enthusiast so this list could go on and on! I love all genres but especially roots rock, americana, western-swing, rockabilly, alt-country, surf rock, lounge, indie, ambient, exotica, garage, jazz, blues, dub.
Radio: KAOS, NPR, This American Life, KEXP (shakin' the shack!)

Food: I try to eat healthy (organic & non-factory farmed meat and dairy as much as possible; avoiding most processed foods). I enjoy being aware of what I am putting in my body. I like seeking out good restaurants that serve interesting food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my mind
french roast coffee
my cd's
friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
songs to write
the human condition
next trip
cool photos
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie at home or out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
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The fundamental element of relationship success---chemistry---can't be determined, in my opinion, from a okc profile so send me a message if you think there is potential and let's see what happens!