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blueblac

29 / F / bisexual / Single

San Diego, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
—
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
—
Kids
Likes children
Pets
—
Languages
English

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I am Faustian, quixotic, and limerent.

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My Self-Summary

I get cranky when I don't eat. I'm obsessive and anxious. I'm physically kind of lazy. I've lived in California for 3 years and I still don't feel like I fit in. I try to be nice.

I'm socially awkward.

I dress like a male engineer on a good day, like a hobo with tenure on a bad day. That is not my shirt in the picture, although I do have several similar ones (thanks, Laurini!)

What I’m doing with my life

Work. Eat. Play videogames. Sleep. Listen to NPR.

I’m really good at

convincing myself that I'm not good at anything.

The first things people usually notice about me

They don't, I'm a kunoichi.

[more than a year later]

I really really need a haircut.
And I'm tall.

I'm socially awkward. People probably notice this. They may interpret my behavior to mean that I'm not interested in them. Well, maybe I'm not at the moment, but I could potentially be. I know first impressions are important, and it's not acceptable for me to screw up all the time. But I have not made an instant judgment of you.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Currently reading The Yiddish Policemen's Union by Michael Chabon.
Recently I have been reading several books by Karl Schroeder (Ventus, Lady of Mazes, Permanence, Sun of Suns) and Connie Willis (Fire Watch, Lincoln's Dreams, To Say Nothing of the Dog, Doomsday Book).

The six things I could never do without

Food, water, air, livable temperature, shelter... umm... sleep.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Energy conservation, safe sex, photosynthesis.

On a typical Friday night I am

Watching TV, playing a video game during the commercials. (currently Disgaea 2 (couldn't stand Grandia Xtreme))

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I go out dancing in a dress made of glue.

You should message me if

(How long did I have a typo in this box, and nobody pointed it out?) Okay, I've moved on. If you're patient and not put off by my severe anxiety, I can be a lot of fun without too much drama. I'm looking for people who complement me, so if you're too similar to me, it can be a turn-off. I'm not polyamorous (that I know of), but I want to meet a lot of different people before I embark on the next "Relationship." It's research. So if we talk and I forget to get back to you, you're welcome to try again. I'm socially awkward. I'm sorry.

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