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42 Atlanta, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:34pm
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
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I have many dubious qualities. Owing to space constraints, I offer the following sampling...

I tend to be the anti-hero of most of my stories which delights my friends to no end. The one involving me, a pack of coyotes (the collective noun for which is a rout!), a tape recorder, and a bowl of cereal is a perennial favorite.

I am passionate about what I do and am drawn to those who live according to passion and principle (in a non-dogmatic, secular kind of way). I am driven equally by Goethe's maxim "the dangers of life are infinite and safety is among them," and Diderot's "the purpose of life is to be defeated by greater and greater things." Not eating anything bigger than your head is also a good rule of thumb.

I once went to the North Pole with my mother, but found it little different from going anywhere with my mother. I love hospitals, but never require hospitalization. I have a deep and abiding hatred/fear of creatures that move laterally (crabs, snakes, etc.). Also wicker. For years I did not know that “P.Y.T.” in Michael Jackson’s song “P.Y.T.” stood for “pretty young thing.” (This even though the chorus begins “I want to love you, PYT, pretty young thing…” The cognitive/sensory dissonance that comes from the fact that certain things can smell one way and taste another (e.g. bakers chocolate, vanilla extract) makes me sleepy.

I enjoy getting lost, dramatic weather, cut grass, the car wash, sparklers, the drive-in, and most things coin operated. Also, ice cream sandwiches. And granny smith apples.

YOU should carry around a lot of change and have an ice cream sandwich vending machine. Or, short of that, an apple tree.

*I would also like to find someone who can tell me that there is no right way to fold a fitted sheet (I would also accept someone who can show me the right way to fold a fitted sheet).
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the collections manager of a very cool nonprofit organization and sometimes filmmaker/writer.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Napping, clambering, weeding, drinking coffee, Scrabble, finding things and putting them with other things, swinging on a swing set, walking on grass, staring at stars
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Flannery O'Connor, David Foster Wallace, Nabokov, Bulgakov, Anne Carson, Haruki Murakami, James Baldwin, Deborah Eisenberg
Just finished David Mitchell's Cloud Atlas. About to start The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison.
I will watch a documentary on most any topic.
Artists: Caravaggio, Diane Arbus, Egon Shiele, Joseph Cornell, Lonnie Holley, David Lynch, Eadweard Muybridge, Thornton Dial, Sarah Moon
Music: Bon Iver, Fever Ray, Patsy Cline, The Clash, The National, Thelonious Monk, Nina Simone, Throwing Muses, Public Enemy, Led Zeppelin, Sun Kil Moon, Glenn Gould, Tricky, Steve Reich, Dum Dum Girls, How To Dress Well, Loscil, El Perro del Mar, jj, Wye Oak, Talk Talk, Curtis Mayfield
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Coffee
2. You
3. What? No, of course I don't value coffee more than you.
4. They asked for a simple list of things I could never do without, not a ranking.
5. Of course I would rank you higher than coffee.
6. What do you mean what am I doing on a dating website?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Thinking it is Tuesday night.
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