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  • Ages 22-31
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My details

Last online
Oct 11
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Not at all
Christianity and it’s important
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I can turn anything into a joke and most jokes into real conversations. I'm analytical to a fault. I think quickly and move slowly. I love smiles. In large crowds, I'm shy, in small groups I'm outgoing, and one-on-one I'm attentive. I distinctly remember meta-cognition when I was wearing footy pajamas.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm getting a Ph.D. in economics. If this were a fellowship application, I'd take a guess as to where that might take me in life, but here I'm willing to admit that I haven't planned that far ahead. For now, I'm enjoying the people I live and work with, and having fun playing with data!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It changes over time. Once-upon-a-time it was my epic beard. Then my quirky rollerblades. Then my dapper hat. I think I started adopting these things to give people shortcuts to define me. But honestly, when I ask people who've known me for a while, they say it's my intensity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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At University of Chicago, we take classics seriously, so I've got to stick up for Heradotus, Thucydides, Plato, Aristotle, and all the Greeks. And I really enjoyed Pride and Prejudice, Moby Dick, Dracula, and A River Runs Through It. I can be induced to read non-fiction, but it takes a little prodding. I read sci-fi and fantasy all the time. I love Asimov, Heinlein, Verne, and Wells. I greatly enjoyed Dune, Left Hand of Darkness, and The Sparrow. Right now, I'm working through The Song of Ice and Fire series, because apparently I have too much time on my hands.

I like a lot of movies and Unforgiven is my favorite. I love Westerns because they have such a sense of Americanness, partly real and partly fabricated. Unforgiven said everything there is to say about the genre. My tastes tend to align pretty closely with rotten tomatoes, although I'm pretty generous toward bold, or striking, or quirky movies. I'm pretty suggestible though, so make a recommendation and expect me to give you the benefit of te doubt. I'm not into horror, although maybe psychological thrillers can please me. (The original Night of the Living Dead, for example, is pretty moving.)

As for television, I actually wrote one of my college admissions essays about the Simpsons and King of the Hill. More recently, I've been watching 30 Rock, the Office, The Big Bang Theory, and catching up on Deep Space Nine on netflix.

I love Dancehall and Bluegrass. Would that there were some fusion of the two!

Food: Indian, Mexican, Italian. I eat a lot of sweets, but I'm trying to build better habits. Lately, I've been into cooking hearty soups.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The right answer?

oxygen, carbon, hydrogen, nitrogen, calcium, and phosphorus.

The informative answer?

I drink more tea than I drink water. In fact, if there were some new amoeba found in the reservoir, and an emergency order were declared forcing us to boil all water, I wouldn't notice. Rooibos is my mainstay, because it has a mild, inoffensive flavor and no caffeine, but I like all kinds of teas.

I need cocoa to keep myself motivated. There is not much structure in my life, so the way I keep myself from wasting a day is to set goals and reward myself with cocoa for keeping them. (I find that giving myself room to fail and room to exceed my expectations is helpful, so I give myself points throughout the day, and at the end of the day I roll dice to determine the cutoff for receiving cocoa.)

I crave fantasy and science fiction. Sometimes, I want it to be good, to have some literary merit, and some days, I just want it to be plentiful. I can drink it like water or I can drink it like wine, just so long as I don't go thirsty.

My rollerblades take me everywhere. I'm not amazingly agile, but I find them so convenient, and a lot of fun. (Actually, they were much more convenient on the flatlands of Chicago than on the Berkeley hills, but they sort of define me now.)

I love my roommates, and not just my current batch. Every good story I tell begins with "a former roommate of mine..." I think that I like to spend a long time getting to know people, slowly building relationships and moving in together really helps that.

I don't know where I'd be without Jesus. I don't have the words.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Economics, justice, and calling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At Veritas, the graduate student Christian fellowship. I think I never outgrew my undergrad habit of going to Intervarsity on Friday nights. Until recently, I was responsible for arranging these meetings, so "typical Friday night" meant "every Friday night," but now I can sneak away if something else comes up.

More generically, on a free night, I like to hang out with friends. Six is a good number. Movie, music, dinner, games, or anything of the like is great.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was once dumped for a saxophone. In context, it was the right thing to do.
You should message me if
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You want to pursue something low-key to start.
You want to meet me and my community.
You like games, running, or tea.