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49 Birmingham, UK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 16
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Updated 01/04/2015:


I want to start off by saying I am NOT going to pay for any features on here other than what is free so if you like the look/sound of me then tell me via a message. Please be kind enough to have a clear photo on your profile of what you look like as well because I do!

I have been on my own TOO LONG now and I do find it hard to make the first move. Whatever I say on here or whatever photo's I show will appeal to some and not to others so you decide if you like what you see or not! If you do then get in touch!

I am on here to find a long term relationship with a woman my age or under and I will leave that age difference to her preference! I believe in honesty and respect and treating people how I would like to be treated. The world would be a much peaceful place if more people tried it! All I ask is for the same honesty and respect back because in the end I want to find my soul mate.

I don't drive, I don't have a fancy home, I don't have any money and I know I don't have super star looks but I am not fake like most of them either. I am a human being with a beating heart and with me what you see is what you get!

I am an emotional, honest, respectful, caring, romantic, passionate, kind hearted, lovable, misunderstood and kind guy. I am very young at heart and I have a great sense of humour. I like watching some sports and watching football but mainly Birmingham City F.C. (who I have a passion for) and England F.C. However sport and football are only games and they don't rule my life! I like reading, writing which I express myself better in (including poetry as seen above, although I don't write as much lately as I would like to), watching films and I LOVE MUSIC from most genres and most years. I love cuddles and physical contact and that doesn't just mean sex! Besides making love and just having sex are two different things completely!

Ideally (although life is far from ideal) I would like to meet someone like me! That would be someone who doesn't eat meat (but if you do you do), doesn't smoke (that's a must), not religious if possible (I am an atheist and I just can't see a relationship going any further from the start. For the record I don't disrespect anyone's religion as long as I am respected not to have any), someone my height or smaller than me and does not have kids, or has kids over 18. I don't want any more kids (mine are all grown up and left home now) so if you want kids I am not the man you are looking for!

Meeting someone who lives in Birmingham is ideal for me. Like I said above I don't drive so it makes life easier if we are as near to each other as possible. I love to cuddle watching a good film (I don't watch much TV) and enjoy a good conversation about things other than what the newspapers, celebrity magazines etc. brainwash me with and that would be nice too!

Of course I could end up meeting someone completely different from what I have said here but I will leave that to fate because in the end what will be will be if it is meant to be!

I have TRIED to keep this profile as short as possible so If you want to know anything else about me just ask! Ha ha. :-) xx
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am going through a rough patch in my life right now so I am just taking it one day at a time. That said though I always live with hope in my heart for better things to happen and I am trying my best to stay positive about things!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy and helping people! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a warm, loving, friendly person to be around!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Go to to see what music I like. It's a mixture of different genres over the decades! Anything else you want to know just ask me! :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Kids, My Grand Kids, Love, Respect, Truth and Honesty!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Peace and finding love!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I feel I can trust you then I will tell you! :-)
You should message me if
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If you like my profile and want to chat!

Take care. :-)