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bluebrummie

49 Birmingham, UK Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 16
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Updated 01/04/2015:

Hi.

I want to start off by saying I am NOT going to pay for any features on here other than what is free so if you like the look/sound of me then tell me via a message. Please be kind enough to have a clear photo on your profile of what you look like as well because I do!

I have been on my own TOO LONG now and I do find it hard to make the first move. Whatever I say on here or whatever photo's I show will appeal to some and not to others so you decide if you like what you see or not! If you do then get in touch!

I am on here to find a long term relationship with a woman my age or under and I will leave that age difference to her preference! I believe in honesty and respect and treating people how I would like to be treated. The world would be a much peaceful place if more people tried it! All I ask is for the same honesty and respect back because in the end I want to find my soul mate.

I don't drive, I don't have a fancy home, I don't have any money and I know I don't have super star looks but I am not fake like most of them either. I am a human being with a beating heart and with me what you see is what you get!

I am an emotional, honest, respectful, caring, romantic, passionate, kind hearted, lovable, misunderstood and kind guy. I am very young at heart and I have a great sense of humour. I like watching some sports and watching football but mainly Birmingham City F.C. (who I have a passion for) and England F.C. However sport and football are only games and they don't rule my life! I like reading, writing which I express myself better in (including poetry as seen above, although I don't write as much lately as I would like to), watching films and I LOVE MUSIC from most genres and most years. I love cuddles and physical contact and that doesn't just mean sex! Besides making love and just having sex are two different things completely!

Ideally (although life is far from ideal) I would like to meet someone like me! That would be someone who doesn't eat meat (but if you do you do), doesn't smoke (that's a must), not religious if possible (I am an atheist and I just can't see a relationship going any further from the start. For the record I don't disrespect anyone's religion as long as I am respected not to have any), someone my height or smaller than me and does not have kids, or has kids over 18. I don't want any more kids (mine are all grown up and left home now) so if you want kids I am not the man you are looking for!

Meeting someone who lives in Birmingham is ideal for me. Like I said above I don't drive so it makes life easier if we are as near to each other as possible. I love to cuddle watching a good film (I don't watch much TV) and enjoy a good conversation about things other than what the newspapers, celebrity magazines etc. brainwash me with and that would be nice too!

Of course I could end up meeting someone completely different from what I have said here but I will leave that to fate because in the end what will be will be if it is meant to be!

I have TRIED to keep this profile as short as possible so If you want to know anything else about me just ask! Ha ha. :-) xx
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am going through a rough patch in my life right now so I am just taking it one day at a time. That said though I always live with hope in my heart for better things to happen and I am trying my best to stay positive about things!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy and helping people! :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a warm, loving, friendly person to be around!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Go to http://blip.fm/invite/bluebrummie to see what music I like. It's a mixture of different genres over the decades! Anything else you want to know just ask me! :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Kids, My Grand Kids, Love, Respect, Truth and Honesty!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Peace and finding love!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Bored!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
When I feel I can trust you then I will tell you! :-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like my profile and want to chat!

Take care. :-)