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49 Birmingham, UK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 11:07am
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
High school
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Updated 03/10/2015:


I want to start off by saying I am NOT going to pay for any features on here other than what is free so if you like the look/sound of me then tell me via a message. Please be kind enough to have a clear photo on your profile of what you look like as well because I do.

I have been on my own TOO LONG now and I do find it hard to make the first move. Whatever I say on here or whatever photo's I show will appeal to some and not to others so you decide if you like what you see or not. I don't know what else I have to do other than messaging people and getting no replies back!

I am on here to find a long term relationship with a woman aged 30 - 48. I believe in honesty and respect and treating people how I would like to be treated. The world would be a much peaceful place if more people tried it. All I ask is for the same honesty and respect back because in the end I want to find my soul mate.

I don't eat meat, I don't smoke, I don't drive, I don't have a fancy home, I don't have much money and I know I don't have super star looks but I am not fake like a lot of men on here either. I am a human being with a beating heart and with me what you see is what you get.

I am an emotional, honest, respectful, caring, romantic, passionate, kind hearted, lovable, misunderstood and kind guy. I am very young at heart and I have a great sense of humour. I like watching some sports and watching football but mainly Birmingham City F.C. (who I have a passion for) and England F.C. However sport and football are only games and they don't rule my life. I like reading, writing which I express myself better in (including poetry although I don't write as much lately as I would like to), watching films and I LOVE MUSIC from most genres and most years. I love cuddles and physical contact and that doesn't just mean sex. Besides making love and just having sex are two different things completely!

I would like to meet someone who doesn't smoke (that's a must), not religious (as I am an atheist and I just can't see a relationship going any further from the start. For the record I don't disrespect anyone's religion as long as I am respected not to have any), someone my height or smaller than me and has kids over 18 (ideally but life isn't always ideal and who knows what will happen for the best on it's journey?).

Meeting someone who lives in Birmingham is a must for me. Like I said above I don't drive so it makes life easier if we are as near to each other as possible. I love to cuddle watching a good film (I don't watch much TV) and enjoy a good conversation about things other than what the newspapers, celebrity magazines etc. brainwash me with and that would be nice too.

Of course I could end up meeting someone completely different from what I have said here but I will leave that to fate because in the end what will be will be if it is meant to be!

I have TRIED to keep this profile as short as possible so If you want to know anything else about me just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am just taking life one day at a time at the moment!
I’m really good at
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Empathy and helping people!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am a warm, loving, friendly person to be around!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Go to to see what music I like. It's a mixture of different genres over the decades! Anything else you want to know just ask me!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Mom, Kids/Grand Kids, Love, Respect, Truth and Honesty!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Peace and finding love!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
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