*race isn't an issue.
*i really don't have a defined type, thin or heavy, tall or short, i'm attracted to your mind first and foremost.
*you need to have a job, or at least be in school in order to GET a good job. i will not be your sugar-mama.
*i have a son, who is my world. i'm very picky about who i bring into my son's life, so don't expect to meet him right away.
*must not be racist, homophobic, or a bully. political leanings are not necessarily important unless you're close-minded and not open to discussing other people's opinions.
*must not be offended that i have my own friends and my own life. i've been told i'm too independent in the past, and i don't see that as a character flaw. i also have a handful of male friends. but they are just that, FRIENDS. no need to get offended when we all get together for a movie night.
*must be able to laugh with me as well as laugh at me, as long as it's in good humor and not to belittle me.
*i am not a heavy drinker, or much of a party girl any longer. i had my son when i was 20, and that kind of nixed any of that from my life. though i do enjoy having drinks at a bbq with friends, and i like to go out to the bar a few nights a year.
*i like to read, write, draw, paint, and surf the internet. none of these things rule my life, but if you're into any of them, i'd be more than happy to start a conversation about any or all of them.
*i am not a skinny, party girl. i am [u]not[/u] a woman who looks like a 12 year old boy. i have curves, and i'm not ashamed of that. i try to stay active, though with a job and a kid and all of the duties that come along with that, i'm not as successful as i'd like to be.
*you must have good personal hygiene, and i'm not talking about "showers twice a day with loofa and face wash" and anything patrick batemen like. but showering with soap is a good thing. brushing your teeth is a good thing. and facial hair as long as it is maintained and not allowed to grow amuck is fine by me.
*i am honestly not picky. i feel as though these are more common curtsies and i wanted to let anyone know upfront what it is i'm looking for. i think these are all pretty simple.
i drink my coffee black. i don't like mushrooms or asparagus. i enjoy drawing silly pictures and painting nothing in particular.
i like most things pop culture, though they don't rule my life. i collect blue bottles, though i haven't gotten a new one in years. i read books many times. i never throw out a pair of shoes.
i sing in the shower. if you're my friend i would do almost anything in this world for you.
i am eternally optimistic, always give people the benefit of the doubt, and i get walked all over for it. it drives me crazy when someone whines about their life, but does nothing to change it.
i have a little boy who is my world.
i only drink socially as it tends to put me to sleep and i enjoy staying up late, i spend too much time on the internet and not enough time in bed. i love my job.
i like pineapple on my pizza.
I am not a writer, an artist, or anything other than what I am. I am not what you want me to be, or perceive me as. I am fact and fiction and power and compassion.
[b]if you're looking for a quick hook-up, please surf on by.[/b] i like to online chat and get to know someone before crawling into bed with them.
anything else you would like to know? just ask. i am also terrible about getting in contact first, if you're interested, message me, and i promise if nothing else you will get a reply back. xo