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bluedhalia

37 / F / straight / Single

Tacoma, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English, Spanish, German, Swedish

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I am Honest, Sweet, and Artistic.

My Self-Summary

My name is Dhalia (yes that is my real name) I live in Tacoma Wa, I plan on meeting people so please if you want to chat with me please don't live out of the state.
Okay now that that's done here is a little about me. I am all about being cool when it comes to 420, mary jane, weed! I smoke! got my card and everything. I dont smoke all the time but when I do I do not want the guy i'm with to bitch about it. So if you are just not cool about it then your loss.

I am an artist a chef. I lost my husband of 15 years last year and now am looking to get out and meet new people. I am a very open, honest and caring person. I am also very low drama for being a female but I think that comes from having to deal with way to much drama in my past so now i have learned how to keep that at bay. I would have to say I think I am pretty smart but i do not know everything and am very very open minded and willing to learn more. Life is good I live life with gusto! Things just look brighter now that I have seen how bad things got and how great things will get. I miss my husband he was my best friend but I know if he could he would say Dhalia get your ass out there and have some fun you only live once! So that's what I am doing living. I am very independent I have my own place a job and really don't need anyone to take care of me. I love to paint, make jewelry and cook. I have traveled all over the world and I speak a few languages.

So part of my new life has been changing the way I eat.
I have lost 130lbs in the last year and half. I plan on loosing about 60 more. I have worked very hard to get where I am. I really love who I am and would like to find a man who loves me the way am but also wants to support me in reaching my goals. I am 5'6" 200lbs and I fit in a size 16 14. I am not a skinny little thing and I will never be. I am strong and healthy and a kick ass person. So take me as I am.

(smiles & hug's)

What I’m doing with my life

Huummmm? Exploring, Laughing and having fun

I love Travel Swimming Fishing Camping Art
Wine Animals I do a lot with my life I keep myself very busy. I am looking for a man that has the time to explore the world with me. Someone who wants to spoil me because I am very good at spoiling my man.

I would like a man who is smart so that I may learn from him. I spent part of my life traveling around the world as a child and now would love to do that again with someone special.

I’m really good at

Art, Cooking, Talking, Taking care of people, Loving, Listening and being a good friend.

I think I am good at everything I try.

I'm really good at being me!

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes and smile! That's what they say.

My shining personality!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Art books cooking books poetry books.
Good Movies with Good Actors.
All sort's of music

I love to cook I went to school in Spain for cooking and love Fresh Organic local food's. Hot and Spicy, Seafood, Good cheese and breads.

The six things I could never do without

Art, family, Friendships, A soft bed, Good Food, cuddling :0) There is more then 6 things but that's my top 6.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

How I can make money doing what I love.
Finding true love again.

On a typical Friday night I am

If I am not out with someone cool than I am home jammin to music, cooking great food and doing something artistic.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am pretty open about who I am so I really don't have anything to say.

You should message me if

If you think I am cool and you like my profile