I am Spontaneous, Fun, and Weird. I like random things. I have ooooh-shiny! syndrome. Which basically means I get distracted a lot. I enjoy doing a lot of different things. I crochet and knit and like to go geocaching when I can. I like watching TV, but I don't have cable. I use Netflix and stream crap offline.
I enjoy photography, listening to a wide variety of music (see below), and going for long drives. I like to bake and while I cook a little, I find that it's not as fun as baking.
I enjoy having a theological discussion as much as something silly about a TV show. I like walking in parks and I enjoy sunsets. I adore Lake Erie, and I've been to the Pacific Ocean, but not the Atlantic.
To get this out of the way.....if you're a "god-fearing" kind of person, we really won't be getting along, so don't bother. I'm not into god, you can't convert me. I was raised a Jehovah's Witness and then switched over to Pagan a long time ago. After doing that for a while, I realized I'm not a huge fan of any religion. I follow my own path now. So please, don't bother if you're "into" god. I won't be "into" it with you. I'm aware this might come across as being bitchy, but I am just being upfront and honest here. Saves time.
I am looking for someone who can hang out with me, who likes to try new things, enjoys comfortable things and wouldn't roll their eyes at a chick flick or going to Chuck-E-Cheese, regardless if we take kids or not.
Someone who understands kids is a must. Of course, I'm not going to thrust them (I have two) upon you immediately, that would be insanity and even I am not that cruel.
I enjoy board games and some other card games. Online games are fun sometimes. I love Katamari Damacy. I have a Wii and a PS2 and a PS3, but mostly my PS3 gets used for Blu-Ray movies and Netflix.
I have a pet cat and a pet rat.
I hate chores like dusting, dishes and laundry, but they're necessary evils.
I journal obsessively in private and have a blog as well for public consumption. If you're really adventurous, you can view it here: http://bluedrgn52.blogspot.com/
I'm looking for someone who actively tries to make relationships work. I'm open to poly, when it's done correctly. I am currently seeing someone, and our relationship is awesome, unique and complicated, with a dash of occasional confusion thrown in. However, he's a "secondary" for lack of a better term. He doesn't want kids, I have them, so yeah.
Poly isn't for everyone, is different in meaning to people, and I don't expect people to just jump on board with it. But when done correctly, it has some pretty great rewards. If you want to know more about what kind of relationship I'm currently in and why I'm looking for another one, please ask me. Don't just assume you know why.
If you don't know a lot about poly, but want to, by all means ask. Each relationship set is different.
I don't care if you're a guy or a girl. I miss having a girlfriend sometimes, as it's been quite a while since I've had one. Women understand things differently than men do, and that aspect of things is enjoyable for me.
I want someone who isn't afraid of my children, though I'm not looking for someone to step in and fill the role of Dad to them. They have one of those. You can be an eccentric Uncle or Aunt perhaps, but I'm good in the parenting department.
I'm fairly certain that there are very few people out there who will fit in with all of this. Most people see that I already have a boyfriend and peace out. Or kids. Or a weird life. But I do rather enjoy the idea of finding someone who can long term this with me/us.
If that sounds like something you are interested in, by all means, contact me. :)
Oh and congrats on making it through my profile. ;)