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32 Wooster, OH Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:47pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Yes, my profile is hella long. No, I won't change it. It's descriptive. Deal with it.

I'm annoyed with the fact that pretty much everyone on here wants to fuck but doesn't want relationships. So sure, I'll fill out a profile, but you likely won't read it, and just message me with, "hi" or "wanna 'hang'?". *scribble cloud* if you could, just talk. I would rather enjoy a conversation.

I am Spontaneous, Fun, and Weird. I like random things. I have ooooh-shiny! syndrome. Which basically means I get distracted a lot. I enjoy doing a lot of different things. I crochet and knit and like to go geocaching when I can. I like watching TV, but I don't have cable. I use Netflix and stream crap offline.

I enjoy photography, listening to a wide variety of music (see below), and going for long drives. I like to bake and while I cook a little, I find that it's not as fun as baking.

I enjoy having a theological discussion as much as something silly about a TV show. I like walking in parks and I enjoy sunsets. I adore Lake Erie, and I've been to the Pacific Ocean, but not the Atlantic.

To get this out of the way..... I'm not into god, you can't convert me. I was raised a Jehovah's Witness and somewhere around the age of 16, I realized I'm not a huge fan of any religion. I follow my own path now, which doesn't involve a god/gods/whatever.

I am looking for someone who can hang out with me, who likes to try new things, enjoys comfortable things and wouldn't roll their eyes at a chick flick, murder film, or going to Chuck-E-Cheese, regardless if we take kids or not.

Someone who understands kids is a must. Of course, I'm not going to thrust them (I have two) upon you immediately, that would be insanity and even I am not that cruel.

I enjoy board games and some other card games. CAH, Gloom, etc. Online games are fun sometimes. I love Katamari Damacy. I have a Wii and a PS2 and a PS3, but mostly my PS3 gets used for Blu-Ray movies and Netflix.

I have a pet cat and a pet rat.

I have a blog about my life for public consumption. If you're really adventurous, you can view it here:

I'm looking for someone who actively tries to make relationships work. I'm open to poly, when it's done correctly. I am currently seeing someone, and our relationship is awesome, unique and complicated, with a dash of occasional confusion thrown in. However, he's a "secondary" for lack of a better term. He doesn't want kids, I have them, so yeah.

Poly isn't for everyone, is different in meaning to people, and I don't expect people to just jump on board with it. But when done correctly, it has some pretty great rewards. If you want to know more about what kind of relationship I'm currently in and why I'm looking for another one, please ask me. Don't just assume you know why.

I don't care if you're a guy or a girl. I like both equally.

I want someone who isn't afraid of my children, though I'm not looking for someone necessarily step into the parenting role. I've raised them solo most of their lives and I know I would have a hard time sharing that parenting role.

I'm fairly certain that there are very few people out there who will fit in with all of this. Most people see that I already have a boyfriend and peace out. Or kids. Or a weird life. But I do rather enjoy the idea of finding someone who can long term this with me/us.

If that sounds like something you are interested in, by all means, contact me. :)
What I’m doing with my life
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My job pays the bills. I'll tell you more about it when I deem you worthy to know. I'm one of those night owls, burning the midnight oil. I work night shift (10p - 8a).

One day, I'd love to travel. There are so many things in this world that I'd love to visit and see. Just one day in Egypt, Rome, Ireland, many places and such a short lifespan we humans have. I doubt I'll get to see everything on my bucket list, but I'll be thrilled when I can get a passport and stamp five different countries (not connected to the US) on it. :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
We'll go with writing, reading, hanging out, scrap booking, making my friends laugh and being silly. I love to crochet and knit and enjoy making something out of nothing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea - go ask someone who just met me what they noticed. My sarcastic personality and charming witty demeanor? *laughs* Physically I've been told my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books....I can go on forever with books. I LOVE books. I love to read. I read mostly fiction, but I branch out occasionally. I like stuff as tame as Harry Potter to Jean Auel, to cheesy romance novels by Nora Roberts to popular science magazine and medical weekly, to stupid bestseller books like Brisingr and Twilight to murder mystery novels, to science fiction books, (GoT books are awesome). I read as much as I can, as often as I can. I also like to write a bit and have toyed with the idea of getting something published someday. But I think I'm too shy about people reading my own writing. I'm currently reading the Temeraire series and the Wheel of Time series. I don't trust people who don't read.

Movies. Any good sci-fi flick will keep me entertained for hours. Serenity, Stargate(s), Dr. Who (new and old), Battlestar Galactica (new and old), I like action and romance too. (A girl has to have her cheesy chick flick on occasion, but I don't torture others with them unless they volunteer.) I like anime, and Spirited Away is a favorite. I just saw Nausicca and that's added to that favorite list now. I classics like Princess Bride and Neverending Story, Gone with the Wind and Sound of Music (I'm a sucker for a good old fashioned musical). I like a moderate amount of horror movies, but nothing too icky. I like the super cheesy horror movies. I like things like Hunger Games (books and movies) and enjoy super hero flicks like Iron Man. I'm not a huge fan of "stupid comedy" but I did laugh at Elf and Dodgeball. However, I cannot stand Anchorman. (Count it against me if you must.) Some stupid I can handle, too much grates on me. I deal with stupid people enough in my life, I don't really want to watch it too.

Music is as eclectic as everything else. I have a broad range. I like some stuff in the top 40 range, and I like music from my parent's era. I like a lot of it. It just depends on my mood what I'm actually listening to at the moment. Some artists off my itunes list: Adele, Flobots, Santana, Evanescence, Taylor Swift, David Bowie, Jason Aldeen, Pink Floyd, Flobots, Jewel, Andrew Bird, Hunter Hays, Splashdown, Universal Hall Pass, The Glitch Mob, Pink Floyd, Faith Hill, Celine Dion, Blackmore's Night, DATA, Sufjan Stevens, Carrie Underwood, Dave Matthew's Band, Loreena Mckennitt, Lady Gaga, No Doubt, Johnny Cash, Josh Grobin, White Stripes, Enya, Type-O Negative, Abney Park, Jeff Buckley, Barenaked Ladies, Beatles. Yeah. I kinda float everywhere.

Food. I love just about every type of food and I'm not afraid to try something new. :) There isn't much I don't like, and I'm willing to try anything twice. I have a hankering to find good Thai around me and some Mediterranean food around here would be tasty. I got spoiled in Seattle for seafood, so sushi in Ohio just does not compare. But I have found a few places that are decent. I like Chinese, Thai, Japanese, Indian, typical American, honestly a lot of everything.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Is this after my basic needs are met? lol...if so,

A Computer/Internet, (does that count as two???)

No. I didn't include people in here, because people aren't things.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where my life is going, what I'll be doing, goal setting, how my kids will grow up

Also: "did I do laundry yesterday? The kids need showers tonight. Or did they take them this morning? Did I get laundry soap to do the laundry? How much money do I have for groceries? Did I pull out the chicken for dinner tonight? Crap. I forgot to pay that bill....oh wait, no I did. Did I schedule that doctor's appointment? Oh shit, we need toilet paper, I should add that to the list. I should make a grocery list. Do we need milk? Should I spoil the kids and let them have soda? It *is* Friday after all. Movie night? Well, we shall see when I get home if they deserve it. Maybe they actually cleaned their room. Should I clean out the closets this weekend and go through clothes and make them try everything on? I wonder if we have pizza sauce. I should make pizza this weekend, and let them put the toppings on theirs. I need to change my sheets. I am going to be doing laundry all weekend. I don't need laundry soap, I just made some, but I *do* need dish washing soap. Am I going to remember all of this? Probably not. I should write it down. Dammit, why can't I find a pen when I need one?" ..... etc. etc. etc.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Likely watching Netflix, trying to keep the kids from fighting and contemplating if Chinese/Pizza is in the budget for dinner.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Umm. . . I like cheesecake more than I should?

I've been through some pretty tough and somewhat brutal relationships, but I've come out smiling. :)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think that you'd be interested in talking to me. If you have an open mind and wouldn't mind contacting me. It's all at your own risk. I'm a little weird. :P

If you made it through my entire profile and don't think I'm insane. If you aren't afraid of trying something new.

I'm in a relationship, but have no primary. If that confuses you, ask me and I'll tell you about it.

If you don't know what to say, grab the book nearest you and read me the second paragraph on page 3, and tell me why you are reading that book. It could be interesting!