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blueeyedPaul

55 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:32am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Creative, learning-oriented, reflective, a "body" person (danced professionally for 20 years, now do sundry Somatic and Embodied personal and group growth practices). Interested in consciousness, perception, culture, emotion, justice, sustainability, aesthetics, ideas, textures, colors, tastes ...

I am expressive, thoughtful, and imperfect
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying being back in the theatre after a hiatus of more than a decade! Designing and facilitating transformative learning groups. Supporting intersections of disciplines.

Holding myself with compassion and softening the inner judge. And still reflecting on who I am and what I'm doing, where I'm going, and how I'm going there.

I enjoy eating, going to movies and theatre, strolling through cool scenery urban and bucolic, physical development/dancing of many sorts
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading up on gay politics, listening, appreciating a gorgeous day in San Francisco, noticing grammar errors (sometimes I wish I would notice these less!), helping link passions and ideas of friends who muse and move toward visions, hugging....
The first things people usually notice about me
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see my username :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love lattes. Cabaret probably the movie that most influenced who I became. I am totally excited about the new research into the brain, that we can do now like never before in history due to technologies that allow us to 'see" what's going on while a person is alive and doing different things! A particularly thrilling set of explorations in this terrain I'm enjoying: The Healing Power of Emotion: Affective Neuroscience, Development & Clinical Practice (Norton Series on Interpersonal Neurobiology)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
So, let's rephrase this, shall we?
Six things I just love deeply:
-- artistic pursuits
-- social justice movements
-- combinations of the two
-- virtuosic performers
-- my nephews
-- the amazing temperate rain forests of the Pacific Northwest
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a big ole' Barbra fan :-)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 43–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a complex thinker, are into your body/movement and take care of it, are curious, grounded, and are both serious and playful. Chemistry is so important, and difficult to predetermine, but can be helped with good communication and good old friendliness.