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32 M Singapore, Singapore

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:00pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Still not used to writing an intro, but it flows into place better then the first try, so anyway here we go again!

I decided that it's time to update the things here, keep it interesting and well, there's the free bump so no complains here.

Life to me has it's ups and downs, and I guess it forms me into what I am today. I do like my time to myself, but still enjoys the regular buddies outing as well as the occasional friends outings with whom I had not caught up with for sometime. It's quite a good reflection of how time slips by so fast and how tightly you should try to hold on to every moment (ok, maybe not the bad ones haha).

Anyway that's the philosophical side talking, in truth I'm rather lazy in some ways, so no surprise that I have the laze in bed moments or the "5 more minutes" struggle within. But hey, I bet most of you do that!

In between social engagements, I actually like to keep my time free , either for alone time at home, or maybe ah hoc things like looking up info on some stuff or maybe checking out some books in the stores. I wouldn't want to go into details on things I do, cause that'll be like trying too hard to make you fall asleep, so here I'll put on the pen cap (until the next section). But please, feel free to enquire about them in the event that you really need help falling asleep.
What I’m doing with my life
Things are still going ok, though work is getting busier but with still nothing glorious to show for it. Let's just say I'm a do-er, not really an achiever. Be it good or bad, that's how it is for now.

Trying hard to find things to have a passion too, maybe some recommendation would be good?
I’m really good at
Praising people. I let this one survived the transition from the first write-up to the second. And I really mean it at that point when I said it, so it's always true with a validity of an instance hehe.

But on the flip side, I really good at dissing people too. Not my best trait, still trying hard to fight the demon within. It's especially hard when it brings laughter to a group :).

Oh, I think in light of that, I can be quite funny if the companion or group is/are people I can click well with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I put eyes but upon close inspection, I would have to go for the eyebrows.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
For books, I mostly read Agatha Christie's detective novels, but it has been some time since I treated my eyes and brains to her works. Recently, came across some novels/biography of former special ops talking about their experience. Kind of neat and a real eye opener; makes me feel ashamed that I thought NS is a big hurdle.

On movies, I guess the blockbusters always catches my eye. needs minimum thinking and loads of enjoyment guaranteed, can't argue with that hahaha. Or maybe shows with twist ending (Sixth Sense) or is very deep with hidden meanings or easter eggs (Inception). You actually need a few viewings or some guide to understand what is going on, more things to chew on for the mind. Well I realised I'm contradicting myself, but I really do like movies on both ends.

Music for me is anything that pleases my ears, no any one genre or language, just anything that gets sounds nice to me. Don't really like radio as they tend to keep repeating the hottest song, which makes even the nicest songs sound tiring after sometime.

Food, the simplest thing for write on. No garlic,or rather, strong smell of garlic. If the garlic taste and smell nothing like one, hey, I'm game. Another bane: fried onions. Those that they put in chinese noodles, remember? Tend to avoid those.
The six things I could never do without
My wallet, some money in the wallet, Internet, laptop, my phone and a quiet corner.

Ok ok, maybe i can exchange the quiet corner to a pair of earphones and I'll create my own oasis.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How come people always like to compare themselves with others?
On a typical Friday night I am
Plan A: Find some friends, go out and have a good time enjoying dinner, movies or drinks. Or sit around and chit chat, although mostly sitting around and watching time pass.

Plan B: Try to get Plan A rolling again, with another bunch of friends.

Plan C: Stay home and unleash my awesome ability to entertain myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Someone pointed out to me that the previous "secret" might not sit too well with others and it's rather rare to be seen admitting (thanks to the mysterious proofreader). So I guess a second one is due: I am actually not that good with colours. Boring, I know.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You can see the funny side of things, and is willing to share it with a person whom might see it in the same light.

OR you can just drop by often and I'll get back to you!