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bluelight

28 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Seattle, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French

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I am quirky, rational, and reserved.

My Self-Summary

I'm an easy going guy with an optimistic outlook on life. I'm a paradox of idealism and practicality. I'm very rational. I'm also a hopeless romantic. In relationships I'm all about openness and honesty. I love learning and I'm open to all sorts of new experiences. I should say, I'm kind of a nerd - I love science, documentaries on PBS, jazz and old movies - and I like it. I enjoy talking about politics, art, and science. I swoon for kittens/puppies/babies (seriously, it's like kryptonite). I love to cook, but rarely do. I love good music (of all genres) and enjoy attempting to make it myself occasionally. In lieu of making music myself I really enjoy discovering new music, seeing live shows, and dancing like there's no tomorrow. I'm shy at first and quiet(er) in big groups... but once I let loose, there's no holding back!

What I’m doing with my life

I'm new to Seattle; I graduated from college a while ago and spent the past few years living and working in Boston. Now I'm out here starting graduate school and having a blast!

I’m really good at

Listening, laughing, playing music (maybe?... well, it's fun at least), finding the best part of any situation.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm pretty quiet at first. However, once I'm comfortable I'll open up and be funny, dorky, weird and engaging.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

(books) currently: anything Tom Robbins (esp. Still Life with Woodpecker & Skinny Legs and All)

(movies) The Big Lebowski, Wayne's World, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine..., Next Stop Wonderland, The Godfather, Casablanca, The Usual Suspects, It's A Wonderful Life (I have my reasons), Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Old School, The Constant Gardener, and The Science of Sleep...

(music) Ani Difranco, Andrew Bird, Ben Gibbard (anything), Electric President, John Coltrane, Alexi Murdoch, Damien Rice, Ella Fitzgerald, elliott smith, The Weakerthans, The Beatles, Miles Davis, Louis Armstrong, The Frames, Jay-Z, Rodrigo y Gabriela, Nina Simone and Jurassic 5

(food) name it... my horizons are always expanding... just not fish... or vinegar... yuck!

The six things I could never do without

computer (sadly), a guitar, music, love, sex and my sense of humor.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

science, politics, music, people, family, career, art... ummm... abstractions... any questions?

On a typical Friday night I am

define... "typical"...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I prefer earl grey.

You should message me if

you haven't been discouraged by anything you've seen thus far!