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blueoceans

31 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:45am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Medicine
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I love living in San Francisco, but I'm in the Castro, and not really finding dates where I live... so I'm here! I work as a nurse in a busy community health center. At the end of the day, I'm looking for someone to kick back with, wind down, and forget the stress of the day.

I'm originally from the east coast, near Boston, and I miss Dunkin Donuts coffee, apple orchards, and fall leaves-- but I don't miss the ice and snow-- and I'm absolutely loving SF!

I'm looking for someone that has a passion for music, even if it's not my favorite bands or genres (which are metal, industrial, and hard rock... such as Pearl Jam, Queens of the Stoneage, Fear Factory, Ministry, Tool). I'm a big concert junkie and thrive off of live music. Lately, most of my excuses for traveling to new cities also involve a chance to catch an amazing concert. And with traveling, my favorite way to explore any city is to hit the pavement and walk it.

Most people comment on my smile. I'm generally a happy, optimistic, even bubbly person. But I'm not afraid to embrace what some might call the "darker side" of life, as I love metal and industrial music, fetish/goth events, and gorey horror films.

In a partner- intelligence, an open mind, adventure, and passion for life are important to me. At this point in my life, I'm having fun meeting new people and dating. Though, I'm definitely ready for something more long-term if the right person came along! I've been monogamous and happy, and I've had open relationships and have been happy. (HAPPY is the key important word, all else is negotiable).
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Finally, after years and years of school, I'm no longer a student. It's a strange feeling. I'm currently working full time, but still hunting for my dream job working in sexual health with women and teens. And trying to find pearls of happiness every day.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I feel like I'm at a job interview with this question... multitasking like crazy at work! Keeping sane and calm under pressure. Communication and not ever being that couple that is constantly nagging or fighting in their relationships (I've never understood that)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My blue eyes, my smile, and how short I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: anything by Chuck Palahniuk, serial killer/crime books
like Lee Child's Reacher novels, and I collect old books from the late 1800s and early 1900s related to sexuality (there was some scary stuff published!).
movies: Pulp Fiction, Fight Club, Waynes World, Natural Born Killers, Kill Bill, Singles, anything directed by David Lynch or Tarantino
music: industrial, metal, or hard rock... though I'm a grunge lover at heart (pearl jam, nirvana), I also love Mark Lanegan, Ministry, Tool, Front Line Assembly, Gojira, NIN, OhGr, Fear Factory, Skinny Puppy.
Foods: Italian and Japanese are my favs.. oh and anything with blueberries
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, the internet, Doc Marten boots, blueberries, contacts or glasses (I have pretty bad vision without 'em), and my brain
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a bar with friends, out at a concert, relaxing to horrible netflix, or out seeking adventure in this wonderful city.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmm... I'm a pretty open person about anything- just ask!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You don't smoke, have a passion for music (of some kind!), and you can hold an intelligent conversation.