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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 5:29am
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Full figured
Other and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I lost my left leg to cancer at 16, it has taught me: a) I now have more room on commercial airline flights. b) swimming in a straight line is now much harder. c) nothing in life is worth taking too seriously.

I've also learned to use this to my advantage. You wouldn't believe how quickly I can clear a spot at the beach by approaching someone and whispering "I can't believe you're sitting this close to the water" and then leaving.

I thrive on snark, witty banter, and coffee. Not necessarily all at once. But sometimes all at once.

I spent some time living in Ireland, and it was awesome. I have a special relationship with Guinness. Also whilst abroad these things happened:

a) I was accidentally dragged (in a group) to a crack den in London by a Welsh man who wouldn't stop talking about his small penis.

b) I was blessed by the Pope. It was terrifying until it was over.

c) I learned that when you attend the Olympics in Turin at the last minute, you must sleep in a train station. And so must everyone else.

Someone once said to me "I'm used to your unbridled heat."

Other favorite quotations:

"The world is a stage, but the play is badly cast."- Oscar Wilde

"If you want to be understood... listen" - the film Babel

"What!? It's like you ain't never seen chicken before, you sandwich-eatin' motherfucker!"- possibly-homeless man eating chicken outside 7-11 in Central Square, to young woman exiting the store.
What I’m doing with my life
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Returning home to Bar Harbor, Maine after living in Boston for the last few years to save money to apply for a graduate program in New York. Working as a Project Manager for an educational publishing company.

Aside from the day job, I have a MFA in Creative Writing from Boston University. Have had poetry published at Columbia University and am working on my first novel.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
sarcasm and making anything into an innuendo
The first things people usually notice about me
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"You smell like Jesus."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Lone Ranger and Tonto Fistfight in Heaven, St. Lucy's Home for Girls Raised by Wolves, Winter's Tale, A Density of Souls, Tracks, Outlander, Harry Potter, The Mother Tongue, The Great Gatsby, Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close, American Gods, The Lovely Bones, Interpreter of Maladies, The Miniature Wife and Other Stories, The Book of Strange New Things

Music: Fleetwood Mac, The Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, The Black Keys, Fall Out Boy, Incubus, Augustana, Bombay Bicycle Club, Flogging Molly, The Pogues, Oasis, Hootie and the Blowfish, Tracy Chapman, Adele, Florence and the Machine, Poe, Michael Jackson, The Dixie Chicks, Jimi Hendrix, Hozier

Movies: Practical Magic, Hocus Pocus, To Wong Foo, Jurassic Park, Schindler's List, Angels In America, Crash, Babel, Pulp Fiction, Grindhouse, Inglorious Basterds, the Birdcage, RocknRolla, Cabin in the Woods, The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel, many more...

Shows: Northern Exposure, Newsroom, Game of Thrones, X-Files, True Blood, Glee, Modern Family, The Big Bang Theory
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, Autumn, the ocean, any pumpkin related food, margaritas, a good Irish pub.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
places I want to visit, and what I need to do to be labeled as "more kinky" on a list of similar users on OkCupid.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends. Various endings to these evenings have included flipping over backward off a hotel porch, falling into a puddle at about 25mph, and a Canadian bouncer named Joel.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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E.T. was terrifying.
You should message me if
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you feel the urge.