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49 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–56
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 23
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Recently, my method of mouthing the words "I LOVE YOU" to women in cars stopped in traffic lights hasn't been working. So I turn to OKC to try and expand my search.

I'm in an open relationship, i.e. open to other dates and possibilities too. Feel free to bail right now if you are not OK with that.

I'm a passionate man that figured out how to enjoy a lifestyle of freedom and creativity. One adventure after another. After living my life in 15-minute Outlook increments, I decided to become an entrepreneur, and cross-fitter'er. I breathe easier, love deeper, and am true to myself.

My inner dude abides.

I love to laugh and no cow is too sacred to be tipped. I'm irreverent and I've read enough to be dangerous. I sometimes say things that are outrageous. I did not, however, invent the question mark.

I am passionate, athletic, respectful, kind, firmly supportive, truthful, flirtatious, and like every man ... I want a woman who can keep me on my toes.

I am a non-partisan supporter of both Star Wars and Star Trek.

I get really excited (read: Giddy) about the following: buying a new kettlebell, hearing a new song on the radio that totally rocks, packing the car for a road trip and knowing you are going to have a great time, meeting someone and "clicking", women who make me laugh, snow falling on cherry trees in the spring time, girls with tattoos (sigh), the feeling of brand new running shoes.

I am confident and I've acquired it with the humility of someone who has made lots of dumb mistakes and learned from that.

I love music. I am always exploring a new band or rediscovering an old one. If we go to your place, I want to listen to all your records and dance with you in the living room.


I am in a polyamorous relationship with my wife of thirteen years and my girlfriend. We are very committed to each other. I want to meet other interesting people whether you are straight, bisexual, poly, kinky or queer, and with whom I can shuffle around town. I'm really fond of live performances, burlesque, and spending time outside when the temperature is reasonable.

If you are single, I am interested in talking with you. I believe that all relationship styles are valid, whether mono or poly.


I have no particular "type" yet it takes a lot for me to be attracted to someone. Looks are something I do think about, I'll be honest. Everyone has a different viewpoint of what they find attractive physically. I love the girl next door! I am looking for someone who looks good to me personally, whatever that may be. Personality plays a huge role in that. I generally need to spend a little time with someone before I can say I'm attracted. I love women who are honest, blunt, playful, and confident. Hot personality = Hot physically.

What turns me on are people whose hearts are deep and loving, and who dream big -- and will do anything to see their dreams come to life. Too many people are jaded, unhappy or negative, but you aren't and neither am I.

I am an authentic man who has real and warm gifts to share with a passionate, sexy beauty. This is quality real estate here.

Don't be shy -- if you would like to meet, please feel free to write to me and let's see if we "click". Who knows? I might like you too. At the very least, maybe we can be cool friends.

There's a lot more to know and I would tell you more ... but that wouldn't allow me to leave you on the edge of your seat wondering just how awesome I am .. Lol :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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From business owner, to work in the oilfields, to project manager at global corporations, I have now arrived at a time where I have creative and lifestyle freedom. This next year is about taking it to the next level and achieving financial freedom.

^^ So serious. I'm also considering learning how to shuffle. You know, dance .. like the kids do? It looks cool and I wonder if it's as fun to do as it is to watch.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being calm when everyone else is freaking out, being social in a crowd, hocking loogies, fighting for the last few reps, drinking coffee too late in the evening, following assembly instructions, not giving away spoilers, taking pictures, making people feel good, taking myself too seriously, singing in my car, guessing what artist from the song, eating a whole bag of candy, noticing that you got your hair done, shitting bricks, spontaneously deciding to do something that I have been mulling over forever.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have a warm smile, deep blue eyes, and love to laugh. Oops, sorry I got stuck in cliché mode there. Actually it's probably that I make friends easily and I will generally talk to just about anyone. I'm also a happy drunk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like small and cozy bars, burlesque shows and wild and crazy coffee shops. If the word 'sushi' is involved, I'll roll over like a german shepherd and let you rub my tummy.

I like to read a good yarn, and prefer clever story writing. There are only 20 plots in the world and it takes a lot of skill to present something fresh.

I've been listening to all kinds of music ever since I can remember. I don't discriminate music, but Pandora tells me I prefer tight beats and harmonic chorus. You probably have something in your music collection that I've never heard before and that will blow my mind.

I'm a former junk foodie with a boner for bacon. I eat Paleo now and have recently discovered the happiness that is Chocolate Chip Bacon cookies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Dictionaries
2. Beat up kettlebells ... heavy ones, with skulls painted on them
3. Listening to frogs at night, in my neighbourhood, when there are no other noises - just me and the night and the stars.
4. Inside jokes.
5. Well done sarcasm.
6. Mouth watering, soul shaking sex.
6. Bed head.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What does a vegan zombie eat?

Why are female zombies more likely to bite your head off?
Period paaains.

Which tax do zombies hate paying the most?
Capital gaaains.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On any typical evening, I am doing typical things like trying to put a child to bed, catching up on reading, or out on a date for nachos and good beer. On not so typical nights, I may be dancing to electronic music, setting up a telescope to look at the moon, or sitting around a beach fire telling tales.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i) If I'm listening to music while walking somewhere, I always imagine myself as the lead singer. It's fun, and as close as I'll get, so shut up.

ii) I never read what books or movies people put in the Favourite Books and Music section. TLDR;
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
.. you know what "polyamory" means or are polyamorous yourself.

.. you are exploring non-monogamy

.. you are friendly, and are looking to make a connection with a cool guy, that can lead to fun friendship or dating.

The scene in the Watchmen where the Comedian forces himself onto Silk Spectre gets you hotter than you're willing to admit.

.. you find me interesting. Fabulous, even.