I'm a gentlemen who is most definitely knot a gentle man, if you catch my drift.
I have an extremely sarcastic, often witty (or so I like to think), sense of humor. Do a search for "business time" check out the very first video that pops up. I'm not above "That's what she said" or "So's your face!", but I know when to put my game face on to meet your friends and family.
I'm a fan of PDA. Not teenage face sucking, just holding hands, a soft sensual kiss here there just because. To me it's one of the simplest ways to maintain a truly intimate connection with your lover also a great, yet simple form of foreplay. I'm an excellent kisser, so be prepared. If you can't control yourself I understand, but I do have a stick and I will beat you back with it if I have to. You've been warned.
Now to go a bit more into who I'm looking for. A broad sense of humor is a must as I can make some pretty off the wall jokes. A woman who is confident in who she is and owns it. I like the types that have strong, sometimes dominant personalities who love being with and following the lead of a strong dominant man. Very family oriented, with a deep seeded need to care for those that she loves. I want someone who has an athletic side to them. You don't have to be training for a triathlon, just someone who stays active, hits the gym regularly or gets out for recreational things. Someone who is intelligent, I don't expect you to give me some insight into the evolution of the market economy in the Southern Colonies, but a thirst for knowledge and bettering oneself is a huge plus.
P.S. The above line is a quote from my favorite movie. Kudos to you who can guess it without looking it up.
Speaking of quotes, this is one of my favorites...
"We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love."
So, now that you have an idea of who "I am", I'd like to add a few disclaimers that truly are not negotiable.
1. If you aren't involved with kink/bdsm, I'm not going to date you. I don't have time to educate/train anyone new to the "lifestyle", nor do I really have any desire to. By new I mean you have little to no experience in bdsm as a submissive.
2. If you aren't either a service oriented submissive (most important part of this statement), or a masochist (preferably both), then I do not see long term potential for us.