Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Intelligent, thoughtful, kind, friendly, classy, not funny myself
but love someone else's humor....
Spelling. Grammar. If you send me a message with the wrong "your"
or "too" , forget about it. Smart phones make punctuation a bit
tricky, so I'm more forgiving on that front. I'm not kidding about
this; If you can't communicate through writing, don't bother.
In the last two years I have gone from tolerating sports to being
an avid Tiger's fan. I'm still incredulous writing that sentence,
but there it is, and I wouldn't change back now even if I could. I
am intrigued by the multiple facets of the game, I want to learn
everything about it. If you want to meet at a bar for a beer and a
baseball game I might accept.
I'm not interested in teaching you about what makes me tick. You
either understand it, or you don't. (See below)
On a weekend rainy day, I feel compelled to go root around used
book stores, antique stores. On a sunny day, garden, walk a beach
town, discover a new restaurant.
Please, if you contact me, be serious about your desire for a
relationship. I'm looking to make a real connection with someone,
and that involves spending time together.
And for heaven's sake, have a sense of humor, and don't take
yourself too seriously!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I get a good understanding about new people fairly quickly. High
emotional intelligence I guess you could call it. I stink at
anything that has anything to do with numbers. On the flip side to
the numbers deficit, I am great with anything involving letters and
writing and reading.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My height. I'm 5 feet tall. My eyes. Large and light brown. I'm
cute enough that you won't be embarrassed being seen with me. I've
been told that I look younger than my age. Being short with long
dark hair and bangs helps.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Authors: Barbara Kingsolver, Anne Tyler, Steig Larsson, to name a
few. I'm also exploring dystopian literature.
I don't go to many movies - short attention span- but I enjoy weird
movies. Virgin Suicides, Four Weddings and a Funeral, Dead Poet's
Society, Tim Burton's stuff.
T.V.: Big Bang Theory, CBS Sunday Morning, CSI, Criminal Minds,
Parenthood, Modern Family. When I remember to watch.
Music: Some 70's and alternative 80's (The Cure, Love and Rockets,
Depeche Mode, etc.), Melissa Etheridge, Indigo Girls...
Food: Seafood (oysters, King Crab), Ethiopian, Indian, Thai
Random: Learning to play the guitar.
Love the water, in it and on it (but not behind a boat), pan
fishing and fly-fishing (rusty). I do own my own fly rod.
Enjoy being a passenger on motorcycles.
A red wine or whisky girl, with a dark beer thrown in sometimes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I might fill the second half of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for a place to have fun. At a bar watching the Tigers and
drinking whiskey or beer, going to some musical performance or at
an obscure theatre watching a local play or event. The older I get,
the more I relish the atypical experiences.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm here because I'm not quite as vanilla as I seem in life. This
has nothing to do with that silly 50 Shades series. This quest
started before the release of that book. I am into only one thing,
and if you are into it too, then we should talk and at least become
friends. I was born a spanko, much like being born with brown eyes,
or long fingers, or some other thing that is out of your control. I
am into the scene, enough to know that there are many more out
there who are not comfortable with some of the extremes that can
seem to be attached to this fetish. So I am searching a vanilla
site for that person. I am a 'bottom' or a spankee, looking for a
'top' or spanker. I am not looking for a dominant, and I am not a
submissive. I am not a slave looking for a master. I like the fun
and release that comes from spanking games.
You should message me if
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you consider yourself a mostly-typical somewhat-quirky,
intelligent, attractive, successful, liberal, humorous, educated
man who identifies with what it is that I am looking for at this
time in my life. A Democrat. I prefer older men, because they have
been through the rough stuff in life and have the knowledge to
advise and guide a younger woman. I am looking for someone classy,
and someone who has a sense of humor. I am a kind person, and not
interested in playing games. If this isn't you, don't bother
because I'll see through it quickly.
If you only message me a one or two word sentence, or even a meager
sentence or two, chances are that I'll not respond. Please tell me
why you contacted me, and what you think we might have in common.
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