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42 M Chicago, IL

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  • Ages 32–48
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Graduated from masters program
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My self-summary
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Well let's see - I am unique - in a good sort of way. I am still too young be eccentric but I am. I have a little class and a good amount of life experience. I read a lot - I am a great cook - I am a film and movie guy. I am loyal first last and always and I have worked really hard to get away from a lot of the BS that seems to be everywhere. I am a massive contraraian. I feel like an adult though there may be some that disagree with that assessment. Also, usually I don't talk about myself this much - a bit off putting actually.

Looking for someone who is capable of fun. Someone who is not into drama. Someone who is hipper than me and WILL hold me accountable for it. Someone that can hold an enjoyable conversation (I.E. I don't ever need a conversation comparing and contrasting Pottery Barn to Restoration Hardware over risotto - such a conversation will result in general glazing of the eyes). Someone who has passion about that which they care about.

I like having good company - good conversations. I have a lot of life experience (both good and bad) I like people who can keep up and are open.

Culture makes me wet.

I am inquisitive, present, and contradictory
The first things people usually notice about me
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My freakishly large melon?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Blonde Redhead, Tom Waits, Sigor Rus, Bob Dylan, Johnny Cash, Miles Davis, Steve Earle, Lucinda Williams, Animal Collective, Warren Zevon, Brian Eno, Roxy Music, Arcade Fire, Bjork, Bach, The Chieftains, Cowboy Junkies, Etta James, Al Green, Iggy Pop, Iron & Wine, Leonard Cohen, Muddy Waters, Son House, Robert Johnson, Wynton Marsalis, Yo-Yo Ma

A Clockwork Orange, 2001, The Battle of Algiers, Bicycle Thief, Heat, Children of Men, The Departed, Infernal Affairs, Taxi Driver, Raging Bull, Blow Out, The Passenger, The Big Sleep, Millers Crossing, The 400 Blows, Oldboy, Red Beard, Goodfellas, Army of Darkness, Thief, Stray Dog, Blue Velvet, Eraserhead, Baraka

Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Franny & Zooey, The Mysterious Flame, Libra, American Tabloid, Gonzo, 1984, How the Mind Works, Naked Lunch, Beyond Good & Evil, How Proust Can Change Your Life, Status Anxiety, The Power of Art, 10_x_10_2
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am reluctant to fill this out for fear of looking like an apple centric cliché
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life - self - the randomness of consciousness - I can be a bit of a grind
You should message me if
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You have some odd in you

You like clever cynical outlooks

You can get the joke

If you are a very traditional person - I respect that - I am really truly not that - I would probably have you pulling your hair out of your head in a short amount of time

For example - Rick Santorum is so batsh*t crazy I giggle whenever I hear him speak