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28 Saint Paul, MN Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 22
4′ 9″ (1.45m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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My most important personal tenet - always stop for lemonade stands. If you ask kids what they plan to do with their money, 99% of the time the answer is "Um. Save it."

I enjoy hiking, biking, swimming, and camping. I am probably not considered an "er" or "ist" of these activities since I don't own any fancy poles or jerseys. I did however just purchase a climbing harness, so perhaps now I can officially be called a "climber".

I am a listen-er of public radio. This American Life is my favorite. Least favorite - The Splendid Table - gag. I can't decide if I sorta-like, or kinda-hate Wits.

I find it incredibly amusing that "active" and "laid back" are used synonymously on this site.

I think the most important objective in life is how we treat each other. This encompasses not only The Golden Rule but also using common sense and being aware of how your actions indirectly affect others - never make anyone else's job harder. The second most important thing in life is how we treat the Earth. I don’t think perceived futility should be an excuse for inaction.

Did you know Utah is the #1 state for clicks to porn sites? Think about it.

Maybe someday I'll get around to staging some sexy selfies, since I know y'all are visual creatures, but this is pretty much my body type...

If I could summon an ancient-psychic-tandem-war-elephant my life would be pretty close to perfection.

I really dislike online dating. It's like applying for jobs online, but with the added pressure of being judged on whether you are hot or not. I will disappear from this website for weeks at a time.

I would much prefer meeting people in person, but alas, no man will ever ask me to the cinema after he “accidentally” brushes my hand while we reach for the same potato in the produce section. So here we are again.

I’m not against smoking pot, (I usually don’t partake because it makes me feel really sick) but if smoking is a large part of your personal identity, we are probably not a good romantic match. I am willing to keep an open mind about this if you otherwise think we'd get along. If you smoke every day, I'm not interested. Not because there is anything wrong with smokers - I just don't get it/derive any pleasure out of it. I'm also not a fan of heavy drinking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a horticulturalist.

Horticulture is different from botany. I didn't attend a fictional wizarding school, so no, I am not an "herbologist". No, I don't consider horticulture to be an "exotic" college major, but that's cool if you do : )

My friend and I own our own gardening business.

But it's winter now, so I am currently slinging shoes on commission at a local department store. It sucks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Choosing/making gifts for people. Paying attention. Remembering. Procrastinating. Baking. Making a mess in the kitchen. Eavesdropping. Talking to kids. Growing plants from seed.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm very short. 4'9" is certainly not an understatement (I'm actually 4' 9.25" And yes, ever quarter inch counts.)

In case you were wondering, I am not a "little person" (aka dwarf) - just a short girl by normal genetics. My mom's 4'10" and my dad's about 5'9".

I am always confused/amused when people ask me "So, what's it like to be short? What challenges have you faced?" - as if I am handicapped. Um, sometimes I can't reach things??? This is my normal body and I'm used to it. I don't feel small until I hug a tall friend, or need to climb Mt. Grocerystoreshelf to reach the delicious summit of Reese's Puffs.

If a genie popped up and offered me an extra 6 inches I wouldn't turn him down, (that's what she said) but I generally like myself and don't have a problem with my height.

I am an equal opportunity dater when it comes to height and size; just because I'm small doesn't mean my counterpart has to be. (As long as you 6' 4'' gentlemen don't mind a lady hoisting herself into your arms on occasion, or getting comfortable in your lap.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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- If you can guess, you get mucho bonus points

- Hamilton Leithauser, Brandi Carlile, Mason Jennings, Fleet Foxes, Talking Heads, (David Byrne is a god) David Bowie, Cat Power, Chromeo, Wax Tailor, Cake, Beastie Boys, Tenacious D, Beck, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeroes, Incredible Bongo Band, Jose Gonzalez, Old Crow Medicine Show, Patsy Cline, Ray LaMontagne, Richard Cheese, Django Django, ZZ Top, Led Zeppelin, alt j

- Greek, Italian, red meat, vegetables, exotic fruit, fancy cheeses. Giant salads of my own creation. Gewurztraminer. Dessert.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Flattened pillow (I hate huge hotel pillows!)
- A mountain of quilts and blankets (for nesting purposes, not the I'm-female-so-I'm-always-so-cold thing)
- My Felco pruners - Corona can suck it
- Bobby pins - regular and jumbo
- Something To Do
- Q-tips
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How I will treat my employees when I am the boss someday.
- How long can one possibly go without dusting. Probably when the spiders start having turf wars.
- Can I compost this?
- What colors I’d paint the walls if I owned this place.
- What steps I can take to stop being so methodical.
- Where I would kiss you if we were dating.
- The type of life I want to live and how to get there.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to keep my energy up after the work week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I only admit private things If you ask me about them. If you don't have the "howboutyou?" gene, we are not a good match. *This is very important.
You should message me if
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Must Haves

1. You treat everyone you meet with not only respect, but kindness, appreciation, and interest.

2. You are funny. You make other people laugh, you make yourself laugh (these do not have to be mutually exclusive : )

3. You "believe" in dinosaurs. You recycle. Your life's ultimate focus is not your religion/You are not militantly or obstinately atheist (You don't devote your life to the belief that you are right). You don't think being gay means being wrong.

4. You agree that humans have an impact on our global climate. And more importantly, that it is our responsibility to be do something about it.

5. You are not addicted to social media. You do not need to post everything that happens to you to make your life legitimate, real, or special.

6. You like sex. You are confident. You are an initiator. You are aggressive. You don't expect or let her do all the work. Giving her pleasure is pleasurable for you. (PLEASE DO NOT message me with “of course I like sex – I’m a guy!” There are plenty of men who cannot be described as above.)

Bonus Points

- You enjoy cooking/cooking for other people
- You are the outdoors-hiker-backpacker-adventurer type
- You are "handy" - the woodworking-building-painting-fixing-creating-making-do it yourself type
- You can teach me something new
- You give a good massage
- You have facial hair

*I try not to spend too much time on this website, so it may take me a while to respond if you send me a message.