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bmem18

26 / M / straight / Single

Brooklyn, New York

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Construction / Craftsmanship
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am clever, portmanteau, and Jack's cold sweat.

My Self-Summary

I'm a college graduate, who like many people is not doing what they studied for. After I graduated college with a bachelors in chemistry I tried teaching, but it wasn't for me. Then I tried working in a bank, also not for me. Then I worked installing and repairing alarm/surveillance systems and now I'm an electrician. PS I love what I do!

A little self directed psychoanalysis here: I started out describing myself by talking about education because it is important to me. I am looking for an intelligent woman who can challenge and stimulate me mentally, but also has a sense of humor that doesn't exclude slap shtick or other less evolved forms of humor.

What I’m doing with my life

I basically covered this above.

I’m really good at

listening (I'm an excellent active listener. Its a skill I have honed through numerous programs where I mentored others in HS and college.) Darts(I play in a league). Making obscure references to culture, literature, and other forms of media. You may have noticed this in my third self describing adjective. (Although that one isn't so obscure) Designing kick ass tattoo concepts (not actual sketches) for myself and sometimes others.

The first things people usually notice about me

Is most likely that I have a beard in some way shape or form or my eyes, specifically that my pupils are usually very large. It could be my tattoo's if I were wearing a sleeveless shirt but this isn't often the case.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Just a few of each

Books: High fidelity, catch 22, amazonia, psion, the far side (yeah the comic strip)

Movies: Fight club, Matrix (1st one only), forest gump, requiem for a dream, pulp fiction

Music: There's all kinds of stuff on my itunes. Lets list the first ten songs that come up on random/shuffle: 1. visions of johanna (bob dylan) 2. Down (311) 3. all my friends (counting crows) 4. I want you/she's so heavy (the beatles) 5. silver (nirvanna) 6. can't get you out of my head (kylie minouge) 7. say yes (elliot smith) 8. Juicy (notorious B.I.G.) 9. that's life (sinatra) 10. killer queen (queen)

You should message me if

These aren't really rules, they are more like guidelines. I don't mind mail but prefer im's.