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51 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 44–54
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:55pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This is where I’m supposed to write a few lines that make me stand out from all of the other guys here. I’m assuming you've already looked at my photos, and noted the lack of shirtless bathroom mirror selfies, so I think I’m miles ahead already, in that regard anyway. :-)

People that know me well say I’m a solid guy, somebody that’s worth your time to get to know. I have a good job that I love and is meaningful, healthy friendships, I give back to my community, I'm nice to homeless people (and pretty much everyone else), I’m kind and caring, I'm dedicated to improving myself, and I’m fun! I’m interested in sharing a life with someone special, and giving that the effort it requires.

I prefer to actually have conversations with people to get to know them, as opposed to writing out a long description of who I am and what type of person I’d like to find, but here are a few general parameters:

I might be a good fit for you if you are highly communicative (both verbal and written), a bit quirky, like sports but they don't dominate your life, like the arts (theater, movies, music, museums, etc.), enjoy being out in nature (hiking, camping, etc.), and love to laugh until your sides hurt.

I am NOT a good fit for you if you are more comfortable in the country or small towns than you are in a city, are super-religious, on the right-wing in a political sense, into the poly lifestyle, are dealing with issues from previous relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
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Doing my best to be a good person. Working hard, relaxing, exercising, spending time with friends and family, doing things that interest and amuse me, trying not to overthink this dating business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing, making others laugh, asking questions, listening, being a friend, scrambling eggs
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I do get a lot of comments on my socks, but really, I have no idea. What did you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music -- jazz, classical, rock, pop, anything live
Movies -- Indies, drama, foreign, film noir, documentaries
Books --I have eclectic tastes, lot of histories, biographies, but always on the lookout for a good novel
Food -- I'll eat anything. I love a great meal

I’m interested in anything artistic, performing, static or otherwise. Museums, galleries, architecture, live theater, symphonies, ballet, opera -- bring it on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Road trips
Good shoes
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I'm going on my next road trip.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying in or going out. Preferably going out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out! that I don't have any tattoos.
You should message me if
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